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writes: Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for just under 2 years and throughout the relationship we have had our ups and downs but lately i've felt so ignored by him whenever i go to see him, like he doesn't want me there. i confronted him about it on monday and he said that he knows he's doing it but he doesn't know why he does, but he does love me and will try. i accepted this but when i went up on wednesday he did exactly the same so i got very upset and drove home. he hasn't even contacted me since and wont reply to my txts or phone calls. is it over now? should i keep calling or just leave it? i'm so confused and hurt how could he just fade me out after 2 years together without a good bye, please help me i dont know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (24 July 2006):
 Hi lozza,
What i would advise you to do is give him space.There is really nothing more you can do.You cant get him to do anything he doesnt want to and he has already admitted that he does ignore you.
I know all this is difficult and you must miss him and want everything to go back the way there were. If at all he does love you as he says he will come back for you because he will miss you.when you love someone you want to be with the person all the time.That is love not him just saying it, let him prove it because so far he isnt by ignoring you and not receiving your txts or calls.if he doesnt contact you then he is just playing a game and he doesnt love you and it is best to leave things like that.
In the meantime go out and take your mind off things. Go enjoy yourself and dont bother yourself much.
Goodluck
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