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writes: Iv'e been seeing a married women for 6 months. It ended 2 months ago, the phyical side of it, but we have remained friends. I love her with everything I have but am I fool for waiting until her marrige breaks up by itself? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mr S  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 I’m sorry to read you question, a relationship with a marred person is never a good idea. But the said fact is if the lady loved you she would have broken up with her husband in the first place to be with you.
If her relationship with her husband is a rock one this needs sorting out first.
If she brakes up with her husband then before you get together make sure that its you she loves and not needs (There is a massive difference). If her marred relationship has been unstable and her husband has been unappreciative of her than she may be getting a thrills out of you being nice, attentive and loving towards here. Once that thrill goes, and the reality strikes, you may find you haven’t got a relationship.
In my opinion (for what its worth) you should step back and take stock of the situation and act at leisure, or you may live to regret your actions. Allow time to brake or heel there relationship without interferences. Try to get on with your life and possible meet a new woman.
All the best
“Be true to yourself”
Mr S
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