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writes: Hi, I'm feeling really confused at the moment.I've liked this boy for over a year, but I've never spoken to him and we met on the streets. I was chuffed when he asked me for my digits today. Problem is, he's 22 and I'm much younger then him, and my mom sees him about and she thinks he's a right pervert. Once she saw him in the shop looking at porno magz so she thinks he only wants me for sex.I don't think he's like that at all, but she keeps telling me to be careful.. I never ended up giving him my number, because I know what it would of been from mom. All of my friends keep telling me to give it him ...I haven't got a clue what to do? I'm sorry its a bit of a dumb problem..
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reader, x-saza-x +, writes (25 July 2006):
x-saza-x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much u all helped xx
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reader, tux  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 BTW how much younger? Him being only 22 and you are saying you are much younger.. if I had to take a guess.. I would say 14.. but then that is only a guess.. which your mom may have some concern.. but I guess by the way your mom is speaking to you about it.. I would up the age to 16-17.. I only say that because 22 is not much far from 18.. But my guess is your mom is just concerned that what he may really be like.. If you go forward.. just be careful.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (24 July 2006):
 Your mums just trying to protect you from a possible mistake you could take. She just want you to end up in a relationship where you'll be used and abuse, where you could lose your virginity to guy who wouldn't really give a damn about you.
All i can say is try to stay safe, it maybe great to go out with an older guy but it also it may enter in a world where you aren't ready.
So be cafeful and make your choices wisely. If you give him your number and decided to meet up with him always tell your mum the area. Best be safe then sorry, for real.
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reader, Tine +, writes (24 July 2006):
 for a start what fella doesnt look at porno mags? Maybe some seem like they dont because they dont get caught doing it in shops but most of them do it in private! Its just a guy thing. You mom is right to be concerned tho, if he is much older than you then she would automatically think that he would only be looking for sex because thats what some guys of that age do but you need to tell yourself that not every guy is like that. If you feel that you want to get to know him a bit better then i'd say give him your number and find out for yourself what he is really like. However dont be pressurized either way by friends and family, its your decision nobody elses!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2006): Give him your email address and be careful of course.
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reader, chazx +, writes (24 July 2006):
 hi saza
if you really think that he doesnt want you just for sex go with your heart but it is understandable for your mother to be worried about you as you are her little girl so just try ease her mind ok.
good luck girl!
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