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writes: i dated this guy for 2 years when i was 13 and then we lost contact. were in our mid 20's and were back together after 10 years of being apart. our relationship is great and I'm in love with him. were talking about marriage and i know hes the "one". Our sex life is amazaing and i have no complaints but lately hes been hinting a threesome would be cool with another girl. or he said even just to watch me and other girl would be a turn on for him. ive been with a girl-friend of mine just to experience it 1 time. it was fun and i wouldnt mind doing it again. the only thing im worried about is what if he likes it so much that thats all he'll want. what if just us alone wont turn him on anymore. any advice if i should experement with this or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2006): Thats how i felt with my partner. Apprehensive and cautious that normal sex life wouldnt be enough. We had actually agreed that he wouldnt enteract with the other girl as i would go insanley jealous. But were open to the girl girl thing. My bf was cool about that as he always told me that he could never find someone quite like me and it was just an added extra... Anyway he used to tell me that just to see me getting turned on with another girl was enough for him, and that it would only be a one off its that all i wanted and he could just keep the memory so to speak and spice up everyday sex life with the memory of what i was up to.. if you get what im saying. Anyway we never have got to the part as we havent a found a willing particpant lol.. a single bi fem. So if your doing be careful where you look for the right girl. But what im trying to say is that only do whatyou want and he has to respect it, and that i dont think it would nessicarily mean it would always be like that, like my guy the fact that you did it would be enough and he could forever more keep this in his mind. If your not happy doing dont, but talk it through with him so thatyou both know exactly what you want and whats going to happen before it does and how you want to proceed and what you both expect from it. What the two of you have together is you two together this is something extra as a one off or as a time to time thing, if you have made it clear to him that you dont want it to be all the time and your scared about you not being enough after then talk it through, im sure you will be, its just nerves and the fear of the unknown, its just a bit kinky to him and he likes the sound of it, but stress to him that you dont want pressure. YOu should always go at the slowest ones pace, but let him know all your concerns, he loves you and just wants a bit of extra experimental fun, but only if you are ready and want to do it. If like i you dont want him to sleep with the other girl, outline this too, he has to respect your wishes if you agree to this, or you simply dont do it.Take care x
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