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writes: hi,i have been goin gout with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he is really lovely. the only thing is that he doesnt seem to be as interested in me sexually as i would like, we are rarely intimate and hed never initiates anything. i feel like i have to nag him into wanting to be with me. i love him but i dont know if the above is making me feel more like i love him but maybe amnt in love with him if you know what i mean. does he just want to be friends of something? meanwhile i have a friend i have known for about a year and a half who i kind of like and who i think likes me. he is more interested in the same hobbies and stuff that i am than my boyf and lately i find myself thinking about him a lot.i dont know if something could happen between us, or if its just that any kind of male attention is welcome at this point. im really confused. should i be with my boyfriend or does it sound like im getting itchy feet? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 I personally really dislike the "in love vs. love" thing that everyone is saying. You either love him or you don't. But it's not like you are married so just tell him you need more than what he's giving you and move on. That's the whole purpose of dating, to find the person that's the right fit for you. Good luck.
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