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writes: me and my Ex-boyfriend were together on and off for a year. While things weren't that good with us he cheated on me. we had broken up and once we got back together (i didn't know about him cheating on me yet) we said i love you to each other, things we're amazing and i couldn't ask for anythign more, then i found out about him cheating on me. ever since then we would fight more than usual, but i still loved him and he still loved me.and we both realy wanted things to work out. I didn't trust him, but i really wanted it to work out becuase we were really good together and i truly beleive he's changed. we just broke up a few weeks ago and he's already "with" another girl. before i knew this, i went to his house and we slept together..then he told me the next day he just wanted to be friends and that he's with this other girl. I love him, and i know he loves me and is just trying to get over me. what should I do? I can't stop thinking about him. I want him back and i dont nkow how to make him remember how good it was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): yes it is hard - loving a jerk and feeling trapped for not being able to stop loving him? you need to find a way to get out. get out there and meet some new people - somebody who respects you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Walk away! He's no good for you and you deserve better. Why are you putting yourself through all of this, the pain and the suffering in the future will be immense so why go on. He wants his cake and eat it!!! Stop sleeping with him. Start getting your life together, get out there and meet someone else. Once your life is back on track you will start to forget all about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Your relationship has been on and off for the whole year that you have been together, and you caught him cheating on you more than once even and you are telling yourself that he is just doing this to get over you when he told you that he just wants to be friends and that he is with another girl....
You say you want him back and you want to make him remember how good it was....Re-read the above paragraph, and re-read your post and tell me how an on and off again relationship where you can pop over to his house to have sex after breaking up, after him cheating on you, and dumping you for another girl is worth a re-peat.
Please get some self respect and dump this loser, if you move on and find a guy who treats you right, my guess is he will then be more interested in you, but if it were me in your shoes when this boomerang comes around again, I would tell him not to let the door hit him in the arse when you tell him to leave. But, I guess that decision is yours to make and how much you like being treated like a doormat.
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