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writes:I need some advice! A couple of days ago, I told my ex boyfriend that I was reaching my breaking point because we were acting like a couple but didn't have that label of boyfriend/girlfriend. After I told him this, he told me that he really cares about me a lot and would never do anything to hurt me, plus he doesn't want to be with anyone else either. He also said that he will do whatever it takes to make me happy and keep me from leaving. So, now we're back together after almost 5 months and I feel like I'm not convinced that he really wants this even though he says he does. I don't want him to get back together with me just because I threatened to leave. I want it to be mutual, which he says that it is. I'm so confused, need some incite on this if he really means what he says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): I don't think you will have the answer to this one until you try it. Is it what you want? If not then walk away. I you do want to get back with him then give it 100% and try and get it going. Only you will know if things are going ok.
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reader, Nikita  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 Hi mwest, well it sounds like he wants to be with you. all the signs say so. After all, he wouldnt be with you if he didnt want to be. he said that he would do anything to make you happy and keep you from leaving so i think thats pretty good evidence that he cares a lot for you. What has made you feel that he's not sure about this? I think you need to sit down with him and ask him straight if this relationship is what he wants. Say that you're feeling confused and are not convinced by his actions. Im sure that you'll be able to clear this up if you communicate more. Good luck!x
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