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writes: hi alljust want some advice, which i probably know the answer to really!my boyfriend and i split up 2 months ago , is a long story, his decision to split , i was heartbroken. as we dont live far from eachother we said we would at least be civil etc , should we see eachother ,but have seen him today, and he makes no attempt to even acknowledge me, just looks away like i dont exist , is this him just trying to put me out of his mind. he has previously told me his heads in a mess over me when he see's me , cos he cares alot but doesnt love me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Time is the great healer and if his head is a mess then he will ignore you at first. I bet in a few months time he will start to acknowledge you. But don't pester him for his attention. Let sleep exs lay sleeping!! that is my motto. Stop whittling over him and start ignoring him and going to places where he won't be.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): speaking from my own personal experience he may still have feelings for you but just isn't able to express himself in the right way and just feels awkward when he see's you! Just give him some time and space... He could be just as mixed up and hurt as you are... don't hold it against him at the moment cos its a difficult time for you both.....
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 I feel it hurts him to see you. I don't think he is blatantly ignoring you. I think he probably does still love you, but maybe feels that he needs to move on.
Without knowing more about why you split, it is hard to understand why he would act in this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): honestly cannot really answer you there. this happened to me as well, but after some time, things have gotten a bit better (i.e. we both had to acknowledge each other in the presence of out other friend). give it some time, maybe something will turn up. best.
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