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writes: My boyfriend got somebody pregnant and he is planning to marry that person. Can someone please help me with the coping mechanisms to the issue. I am so broken and I don't even know where to start...This happened recently and he confessed to me that he wants to be with the other woman.... I don't want to go back to him. Its just that truth hurts and i want to be sane again.... I want to let go of him.... my relationship was quite new... the only thing spinning on my mind is "i should have done..." i was looking forward to a lot of things with him. My dream has just crushed
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Girl its natural to feel like that after hearing such shocking news!! But you are lucky in a way that the relationship was quiet new and that you hadn't really fallen for him in a big way!!
Best thing you can do is move on, go out with your friends, enjoy yourself - let him see the mistake he made in leaving you!! Your gonna need friends and family right now to help you take your mind of him & what he's done!Its gonna be hard, its gonna be tough but you just gotta be the bigger person in all of this!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Losing someone is so tough and you can't expect to feel good about it, I'm really sorry to hear what you've been through. Whilst nobody's advice will make you feel great, there are things you can do to help yourself recover more quickly. Remind yourself that this time next year you won't even be thinking about him for a second. Remind yourself that he's a cheat and this woman he's marrying has to live with knowing that he's a cheat, and knowing that her baby was conceived when he was cheating on another woman too. Remind yourself that whilst you might have had a good time dating him, he's not marriage material at all, he's a cheat and not very emotionally stable if he can jump from one woman to another. And finally make sure you're as busy as you can be, don't sit in moping about it, make sure you're out and about having a good time and don't even have time to think about him - 'coz you deserve it after all of that crap.
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