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writes: im so scared, all of a sudden i dont feel like i love him anymore. I dont even know where these feelings came from . I have been in this relationship for 8 months and i dont know where the love went, sometimes i feel like i love him and sometimes i dont, i dont undertand my feelings and when i try to figure them out i wind up getting over whelmed and frustrated. the thought of breaking up with makes me cry and im afraid that if i did break up with him i would never find someone as good as him ever again :,( whats wrong with me? is it because we spend tons of time togeather, do i just need some space? or has our time run out? everyone tells me it is just a phase and that it will pass, im so scared all i want to do is love him again :'[ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): The problem could be that you are spending too much time together and things has got stale for you.The same thing happened to me not long ago.We was seeing eachother every weekend and 3 or 4 nights of the week.It got too much and i needed to give myself some space i didnt tell them i needed space i made a few excuses as to why i couldnt see them work commitments etc.As i didnt want to tell them outright i needed some space as it might cause insecurity issues on their part.As my partner is a bit insecure.I only cut down on the time i was seeing them during the week and it kind of revived things and now i feel fine i wouldnt call it space more of a refresh period.I have still continued to knock a night or two off in the week as i learnt having too much time together isnt healthy.
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reader, sheffield_pink +, writes (15 December 2006):
I've felt that about my partner before, but at the time he worked away and we were always apart. I think both being apart and together work best aslong as you're not apart for too long and too often
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