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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Want to tell him I love him but don't want him to freak out or disappear! How do I do this?

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8 August 2006 (F) - Want to tell my other that I'm in love with him, But do not want him to freak out or dissapear. how do I go about it?... (27 words)

Is it healthy to masturbate to porn?

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8 August 2006 (M) - is it healthy to masturbate to porn?... (7 words)

Sex is the most painful experience for me. I try to bear it but it hurts so much! Am I doing something wrong?

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8 August 2006 (F) - I have been sexually active with my love of 10 years only for a few weeks. We're both 17 years old. I want to please him by having sex with him, but I can't. We've only had sex a few times, but I think it's the most painful experience I have ever faced. I can't even keep ... (83 words)

When he phones me, I am so nervous I can't answer the phone! What can I do?

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8 August 2006 (F) - i like this boy but when he rings me i cant answer the phone because i get really nervous and then not sure what to say when i do. it goes quiet then i put the phone down. what can i do?... (42 words)

I exposed his secret to his gf about us and now they both hate me! Was I wrong to tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - ive been involved with a lad for 7 months even though i knew he had a girlfriend of 4 yrs.we met and had a chemistry and instantly fel for each other but he didnt have balls to break up with his girlfriend.the guilt killed me and i still feel bad for our relationship.we snuck ... (158 words)

I turn red and get shy when I talk to girls. My confidence needs a boost so what should I do?

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8 August 2006 (M) - dear cupid i am having trouble talking to girls as i cant seem to get my self to talk to them and when i see girlz that i like i turn red and become shy.. is there any solution to this problem, as i have tried everything to put my confidence up but couldnt. plzz help me and... (67 words)

After 4 years of dating...why doesn't he want me to stay over at his place?

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8 August 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and we are both 22. The problem is he still does not want me to stay over at his house and his reason for this is that he is too young. I don't want to stay over a lot maybe just a couple of times a week and even this is too much for ... (89 words)

I don't wanna scare him off so should I tell him that I want to be more than just his bit on the side?

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8 August 2006 (F) - I was seeing this guy,and asked him out right one day if he had a girlfriend and he dumped me. I later found out he didn't. We still see each other now and then and always end up having sex.When we're together its great, but when i'm away from him i can't stop thinking about ... (95 words)

After sex, I have drops of blood on my underwear...what should I do about this?

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8 August 2006 (F)

- Sorry if this is a little graphic, I am just wondering if this is normal or not. I have been having sex for two months now and everytime we are done, I have a few drops of blood on my underwear or whatever. Most the time its very very little if any but I am still wondering if ... (90 words)

I haven't had a relationship in 10 years..so tell me-- what I am doing wrong?

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8 August 2006 (M) - Question I am 39 years old. I am really concerned because i find it impossible to find a girl even as a friend to take out or a partner. I have not had a relationship either short or long term for over 10 years. Never been married and have no children. In fact I haven’t ... (327 words)

Can anyone explain why he couldn't get hard enough?

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8 August 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I tried to have sex for the first time a few days ago, but he couldn't get hard enough? He hadn't been drinking or anything and i am really worried that it's something to do with me. I know he can get an erection because he has done before, but when it came... (83 words)

Sex questions for you!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - Ok, so i've been sexually active for about 3 weeks now, and i've been having LOTS of sex. I have a couple of questions that i hope can be answered, sorry if i seem naive or if some of it's a bit graphic. Ok, so i'm on the pill but we used condoms to be extra safe. He gets reg... (209 words)

I married a dead lady...are there drugs for this sort of thing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 August 2006 (M) - Dear cupid Please try to help me.Im 41 years old my wife is also 41. We have been together 21 years.I was her first.Her sex drive is dead. All you here about is men with problems what about the ladies?There is like no stress in our lives.She has really always been dead in bed ... (209 words)

Having mixed feelings for my man!

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8 August 2006 (F) - Do you think maybe sometimes i have mixed feelings for my boyfriend of almost 2 months is because he treats me so good and i'm not used to it because sometimes when he does something wrong which is hardly ever or isn't holding me 24/7 i love it just because i have been treated ... (219 words)

Feeling insecure...feeling fat...help me not feel so many things!

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8 August 2006 (F) - Okay, i'm going to explain this more clear so people won't get confused, sorry. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months. SOMETIMES when i'm not with him i can't wait to be with him in his arms but *sometimes* after awhile of hanging out like few hours or more i don't ... (307 words)

His mum said to mine he chases anyone in a skirt!

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8 August 2006 (F) - where do i start - i went out with this boy for a week. he broke up with me and text me and said i dont think it will work. i only see him weekends and chat with him once in a while on the phone. His mum said to mine he chases anyone in a skirt. he then rang me and said wud ... (327 words)

Am I still a virgin after my drunken half-sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - ok well, one night i got really drunk and before i knew know it, this guy and i go from kissing to him trying to have sex with me. it was my first time being in this type of situation and he started to go in until i complained of the pain and realized what was going on. i am ... (75 words)

Worried about my girlfriend's past rape... Is she still a virgin? Should it be forgotten?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

8 August 2006 (M) - My girlfriend was raped when she was younger, disturbingly by her own brother, does that mean that she lost her virginity to him. I can't stop thinking about it, it fills me up with hatred and it don't make me feel very good, it really bothers me. She never told anyone exept a ... (91 words)

My wife has a problem with me seeing my sick mom!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

8 August 2006 (M) - Hi, I hope you will be able to help me on this: We have got married few months ago, good thing is I made it so clear about my commitments towards my mother right before we get married and she agreed. Since marriege I have accommodated so many requests from my wife si... (326 words)

Should I stay over my ex's house?

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8 August 2006 (F) - I'm still speaking to my ex boyfriend and we've decided to remain friends but now, he's inviting me to spend the night at his house. I'm so confused, I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to stay because he's going through a rough time right now with everything(nothing to ... (87 words)

He's been chattin about our sex life...

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8 August 2006 (F) - i brokeup with boyfriend but we are back togther now but my friends told me that when were brokeup he told his friend that he had sex when we were togther i was in a vacation last year with my familly and he came for me and he told his friend that we had sex there i asked him ... (128 words)

Do I stay or go? We have been violent with each other...

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8 August 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for 7 yrs, 3 of them living together, in those 3 yrs he has hit me twice while drunk as i hit him first. he is a good provider but lately i think i should go, he was verbally abusesive the other day while i was defending my daughter from his ... (110 words)

Text ideas?

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8 August 2006 (F) - what would be a realy good question to get someone to think oh i will text her back now?... (19 words)

Having dreams about my boyfriend's ex......why!!??

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8 August 2006 (F)

- I keep having dreams about my boyfriends ex. I don't understand why this is. Some dreams I'm nice to her, some dreams I'm hurting her. It's way too weird for me. I DON'T want to dream about her, I've never even met her. I've seen her and pictures of her, but I've never even ... (166 words)

He cant see the problem so I left him... Is this the right thing to have done ?

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8 August 2006 (F) - hello. i need advice about my relationship.. the problem is my partner and i have been together over 3 years now and i so far our families have'nt met i have invited his daughters to visit several to meet with mine but so far without success.. there are issues between their ... (183 words)

He only ever says he loves me after I say I first!

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8 August 2006 (F) - I don't know if it's just me or what, but should I be worried if when the only time my boyfriend tells me he loves me is after I say it first (like when we're leaving: Me: I love you. Him: I love you too.) and that's like the only time he'll say it. I also have thought about ... (118 words)

I've been dreaming about being chased, he has been dreaming about falling off a cliff... What's it all mean?!

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8 August 2006 (F) - i recently asked questions about dreams, my 2nd Q wasnt printed but i never wrote why i wanted to know about the reasons behind it. im with my bf almost a year and we have never told each other we love each other, i love him and am almost sure he loves me. i want him to say ... (280 words)

My girlfriend thinks she is fat!

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8 August 2006 (M) - My girlfriend thinks she is fat. She really isn't though. Her weight comes from all of her muscle from dancing for 20 years. I have noticed that since she started her diet, that she has been pretty distant. I want to help her, but I don't know what she needs. She told me that ... (90 words)

He puts other people first... And complains that I'm suffocating him!

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8 August 2006 (F)

- I'm still confused about my ex. I wrote about a week ago to say that I have been back with my ex now for about 3 weeks and it's really not getting any better. It's as though he really doesn't want to be around me. My life style seems to be too slow for him to handle. After ... (505 words)

My boyfriend goes into chat rooms to get to know other women, sex-wise!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriends been blatently lieing to me for the 2 years we have been together. he goes in to chat rooms trying to get to know other women intimatley. Every time i catch hin he'll just change his name or move to another sight, he has secret emails and phone numbers that he ... (354 words)

Where do guys MOST like to be kissed? ("tops only"!)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - Where do guys like to be kissed. I want to know, tell what is the best place. (anything NOT below the belt?) and also how do guys like to be kissed?... (31 words)

We got back together on the condition that she would not see or speak to this man again... Now I find she's been emailing and texting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 August 2006 (M) - A few months ago me and my partner split. It was over her being interested in another man. We got back together and I told her she was never to see or speak to this person again. I have recently discovered she has not only been emailing and texting this individual, but has also ... (128 words)

His ex-wife doesn't want their daughters to mix with my family!

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8 August 2006 (F) - Hi, I need some advice please regarding my partners situation with his family. The story is this, we have been together now for three years, living together for two, we are 56 and 54 he has two girls 26 and 22 i have four sons 35 33 32 and 26 he has two grandchildren me ... (405 words)

How do I make sure he's not a liar about how many girls he's slept with... without accusing him of being a liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - i am 17 and recently started seeing a boy who is 19. i am open about the fact that i am a virgin and he told me that he has only had sex one time. my friend told me not to believe him since he is 19 and seems to have a party lifestyle. i honestly wouldnt mind how many times he ... (123 words)

I want a threesome, but he thinks it will break us... would it be a bad idea ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

8 August 2006 (F)

- I want to have a threesome but my boyfriend doesn't think it's a good idea (how crazy is he?!) We're both very jealous people and can't even bear to see people each other have been with in the past. But I just get really turned on by doing something really filthy and don't... (126 words)

Hes had over 100 one night stands!! But Im obsessed with the one before we hooked up ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

8 August 2006 (F)

- Why am I obsessing over the boyfriends one night stand? I found out he had a one night stand when we first met but before anything happened between us. It's really not that unusual, this was the final one night stand of over 100! I can't get this out of my mind and I'm ... (74 words)

Scared that he will stop making an effort, even though things are going great...

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8 August 2006 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I decided to give it another go about 6 weeks ago. I've just finished school so i'm now having an extra long summer holiday before college, and he's 2 years older than me, working only on Saturdays in a phone shop. Everything is absolutely 100% perfect in ... (258 words)

Hes quite happy playing whilst watching webcam clips, but wont show me any attention!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6650 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - My fiancee keeps making excuses as to why he want sleep with me, but I then catch him out playing with himself whilst watching webcam clips of naked women on the net I have tried telling him that it hurts that he is doing that but want sleep with me but he still does it can ... (68 words)

I feel Trapped, he treats me like a skivy not his wife, but dont feel I can leave because of my son!

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8 August 2006 (F) - My partner wants a mother not a lover.i'm a very loving and caring person.15 years we have been together,i have done everything for him,and i have had nothing in return.2 years back he got into the gym,and i was left alone at home all the time,i was going to join but he didnt ... (277 words)

Did my ex lie about the reason for our break up? Can I tell a new guy I'm interested without ruining things?

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8 August 2006 (F) - Hey, My ex broke up with me one month ago because he had to go away for the summer. He told me that it was unfair to me and that we should just break up because he didn't think that he could be in a relationship when he was so far away. My first question does anyone actually... (123 words)

I missed a pill. Could I get pregnant?

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8 August 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex yesterday. I am on the pill but when I went to take it this morning it appears as tho I missed a day. Could this result in pregnancy? I'm fairly sure I took it yesterday but now I'm beginning to wonder. And I was also wondering what is ... (66 words)

I missed my pill could I be pregnant?

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8 August 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex yesterday, I am on the pill but when i went to take it this morning it appears as tho i missed a day, could this result in pregnancy, im fairly sure i took it yesterday but now im beginning to wonder. And i was also wondering what is ... (69 words)

Id rather work instead of spending time with my kids!

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8 August 2006 (M) - What do you think of guys who would rather be working than spend time with their kids? Not because they have to but they find work more enjoyable and rewarding than spending time with the kids. Honestly I have a 10 yr old daughter and a 8 yr old son, and I would rather wor... (72 words)

He treated me horribly but I can't forget the memories!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6680 days ago

8 August 2006 (F)

- hi im 13 and i get upset every night thinking of my x boyfriend since we have not been together we have done things you would do if you was together and a few weeks after we did somthing together he went out with someone else and we have done things since he has been with his ... (94 words)

Has any one used birth control call NuvaRing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6650 days ago

8 August 2006 (F) - So I was wondering if any of you females out there have used the birth control called the NuvaRing. Before I try this new method, I was wanted to know other's opionions on it. I'm a little scared about using it. So what do you think of the NuvaRing?... (49 words)

Is it normal to be turned on by girls?

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8 August 2006 (F) - Isn't it normal to get turned on by girls even if you're straight? I hear so many people say it's normal. Thanks! =)... (24 words)

Is it bad if we're not clingy after a few hours of togetherness?

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8 August 2006 (F) - Is it normal to sometimes feel like you're his friend instead? Well, maybe i just think that. I mean right when he comes over most of the time we are clingy then after awhile like couple or few hours i feel like i don't want to be clingy. I know it's probably normal. I just ... (85 words)

Is my ex having doubts about me?

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8 August 2006 (M) - i need advice so ladies please help. I was with my girl for a about a year but about 2 months ago she broke up with me saying she didn't feel the same way about me anymore. I have left her alone have never tried once to contact her. She told me that she wanted to be her again ... (180 words)

He flirts with other girls , is he trying to hurt me?

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8 August 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend who also used to be my best friend is away with his family for the summer. as best friends we told eachother everything and in our relationship we still do. he told me he was going to a bonfire with his friends, and that he planned on flirting with girls there. ... (179 words)

His friend is freaking me out!

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8 August 2006 (F)

- My bf and i have been together almost 3 years, the problems is not with our relationship (its great) the problem is with my bf's male friend. my bf's friend has stayed at our home countless times in the past and my bf has recently told me some things that his friend has said... (136 words)

We don't want to lose our daughter, what can we do?

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8 August 2006 (F) - My new husband's daughter is 17 1/2. She has a boyfriend that is very manipulative. He has talked her into taking nude pictures which were found by his father and step mother on their computer and she has also lost her virginity with him. Her father is understandably mad. She ... (197 words)

I slept with my best friends boyfriend,how can I show her I'm sorry?

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8 August 2006 (F) - dear cupid. Am i a bad person? ive made the biggest mistake of my life by hurting the one best friend ive ever had. by haveing sex with her bf and i knew she really loved and liked him. do you think i could get her back? how could i show her im really sorry.... (67 words)

My best mate and boyfriend slept together, please help!

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8 August 2006 (F) - dear cupid, i just found out my best mate has shagged my bf. and i dunno what to do? should i try and make a peace with her? or should i never talk to her again? or should i knock her brains out? im more unset with her because she knew how much i liked him please h... (71 words)

I'm still in love with my ex, is it too late to be together?

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8 August 2006 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex and he still loves me but my parents wont let us be together so they had me marry one of the friends of the familys sons but i dont love him, what do i do or is it to late?... (47 words)

He wants a relationship with no strings attached!

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8 August 2006 (F) - Hello- I have been seeing "Luke" for about a month now. He was my first kiss back in the 6th grade. Now we are both 20 years old. In this past month we have hung out a lot, going to movies, beach etc. Within the first week of us seeing each other, he told me he couldn... (499 words)