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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He flirts with me..so I'm wondering--would he ever be interested and what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - Well,i really like this boy, and im not sure he likes me the same way but he does flirt and stuff but i really like him and im just curious if he would ever be interested in me ?... (39 words)

He just can't get hard enough to have sex with me...what is the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - i am 21 years old in my first real relationship with a guy i really love. the thing is he cant seem to get hard enough for us to have sex. we have been together a year and a half n never had sex. he doesnt drink, smoke or isnt undr any stress. its getting difficult now cause he ... (65 words)

What does it mean???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

29 August 2006 (M)

- I think I know the answer to this already but what does it mean when someone tells you that they are not in love with you but they love you very much??? At the same time they kiss you and hold your hand and do all the relationship stuff. Should moving on be an option here or ... (60 words)

She offered herself up for sex and I turned her down! Should I have done that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

29 August 2006 (M) - hi,theres a girl at school and well we were gettin on real good,and on her birthday the other night,we were both drunk and she got some condoms out of her pocket and offered me sex.i said i gotta go and went home.should i have turned her down?... (47 words)

He gets so close to orgasm but just can't do it..and he complains it hurts! Whats should he do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i recently started having sex but for some reason every time we do it he gets really close to ejaculation but in the end it just doesn't happen. im a bit worried because sometimes he says it hurts. ... (41 words)

My boyfriend slept with my sister before we dated...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend slept with my sister before we dated. I have some trouble forgiving him still. I'm not sure if I can move on from this and forgive him. Am I making this a bigger deal than it is? I haven't been with them in the same room together yet and I fear that it will be ... (74 words)

If my bf is visiting the GUM clinics with his friends...does that mean he's cheating? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's friends all aged 20 never had steady girlfriends and so visited the Gum clinic maybe every 6 months. To my surprise my boyfriend also went along. I thought once was ok but any time his mates went he also got checked out too. He never hid the fact that he'd got ... (109 words)

is it wrong to sleep with your ex's best friend even though you've been split up a year and he's happily in a relationship with somone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (F)

- Just a quick question, is it wrong to sleep with your ex's best friend even though youve been split up a year or so and hes happily in a relationship with somone else? And is it normal that the ex, when they find out, will think that you did it just to annoy them? Or are the... (88 words)

Not sure if I can forgive my bf for sleeping with my sister! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

I'm 16..he's 15 and he's talking marriage and babies! I need to end this. Any ideas on how to do that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

29 August 2006 (F)

- yey people got a huge problem my boyfriend keeps on talking to me about having kids and starting a family and settling down. and im really not ready for it all i mean im onli 16!!!!! and he's onli 15!!!!! i need to end it now befor it gets too far any advice on how to do it?... (59 words)

I'm only 12 and my Dad's friend always grabs at me! Who will believe me and what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - hi.i'm 12 years old virgin. my dad's closest friend grabs me at any chance he gets. i've told him not to do that and i'll tell for him if he tries it again but he says no one will believe me not even my dad his good friend for years. He said he will tell them i'm unstable and ... (106 words)

He called me a 'jumper' and said we wanted different things from a relationship! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - I am a single mom with two young children. they are ages two and four. I have just recently started dating again. I have only been out a couple of times. However, I seem to be coming on all wrong. The last guy I saw approached me. We had 4 dates, we were emailing alot, and he ... (129 words)

What a mess... what do i do. Give up? (long)

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (M)

- YES IT IS LONG BUT I SO NEED HELP FROM AS MANY AS POSSIBLE. PLEASE PLEASE YOU SMART ONES READ THINK AND HELP ME DO THE RIGHT THING i was with my gf for three and half years, lived together for a lot of it and we had a baby eight months ago. We had ups and down in relationship ... (1264 words)

Is there different ways for a termination of a pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - I am worried I might be pregnant. I do not want to go to clinic for an abortion. is there an alternate way of termination?... (25 words)

What's the best position for sex???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - Im just curious to find out which is the best sexual position....... xxx... (13 words)

This new lad is a flirt..so if I dump my bf to date him..will he still flirt with others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - hi my problem is that a lad i used to be interested in and vice versa has started chatting to me about how his girlfriend has been really pissing him off recently and that he is going to dump her and i have told him that im having problems with my boyfriend and he has said that ... (162 words)

Scared the lack of sex will drive me to someone else... please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - Gosh where to start,.. Im totally in love with my man but im very scared that the lack of sex situation will force me to cheat. Now i hear you all saying if you loved him you wouldnt cheat.. but its not that simple!! Unless you are in it you really dont know!! We have been ... (744 words)

I really like my friends sister but would it be wrong to ask her out ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (M) - Ive known one of my mates for about 8 years now and ive really liked his sister for quite a while. Im 20 and shes 16. I get on well with her and she always seems flirty every time i see her. My mate knows i think shes fit but should i do anything about it as shes a mates ... (78 words)

This is a bit of a Jealousy/insecurity issue, but please hear me out and please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - Hi guys. This will sound to all of you like a ridiculous problem. I have real jealousy and insecurity issues. I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of two years, and Im very aware of how attractive he is. He is coming over to the uk this weekend, and we a... (238 words)

Why are so many people getting divorced ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (M)

- I noticed in a survey that 2 in 3 marriages end in divorce in UK (so will probably be higher in america). Why are so many people in UK getting divorced? Or is it more frequent in certain areas or social classes... (44 words)

Without sounding silly.... how would I know if the guy from church does really like me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - hi. im 16 this yr. is it a right time to start dating? i dunno. cos i like this guy from my church, B. he's um, 18 this yr, and really sweet. however i jus go over a guy liked from school so i dunno whether this crush is jus..well, something to get over the guy from scho... (210 words)

I dont want to scare him off, but want him to know I care, how should I act ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - I have a very good male friend who i have known a few months and im falling in love with him, i see him twice a week speak to him everyday but he has been hurt and doesnt want a relationship. He knows I like him alot but I dont know how best to act around him so as not to lose ... (82 words)

I dont think im as happy as I should be, and keep have dreams of an old flame......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (M) - Dear cupid agony aunt, Before I begin, I'd like to point out that I am a (perhaps excessively) caring and considerate man, and so advising me to simply 'leave and move on' will unfortunately be useless. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now, and what star... (357 words)

Why wouldnt he have called me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - there was this really reaLLY fit guy that i was seeing, we went out on 2 dates and we talked on the phone and we went to the pictures and i gave him a hand job and then he went quiet and called me less and less and now he doesnt call me anymore and i dont wanna call him bec it ... (75 words)

Why do married men look at porn? A man's perspective, please.

This question has 70 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - Why do married men look at porn? I have an agreement with my husband (of 9 years)that strip clubs, magazines, movies and surfing the net is fine...but i found a subscription to a web site that featured one girl. I found this to be pushing it. I'm no spring chicken b... (95 words)

How do i know if my husband is unfaithful?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - how do i know if my husband is unfaithful? He is suddenly not interested in sex. He critisizes me constantly He ogles other women. He wants to have a penis enlargement. He is suddenly working late often. He spends money (up to R1000) every month that he cannot account... (58 words)

How can I get her to open up a bit without causing friction ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

29 August 2006 (M) - Let me give you a little bit of background before I get to my question. I have been seeing this lady for a little over two years now. She is a few years older than I am, which is one drawback according to her countrys customs (she is not American). I have lived in her ... (352 words)

Why would it bother my ex, that I kissed his friend when he dumped me for another girl a year ago?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F)

- Why does my ex care that I kissed his friend when he dumped me for another girl a year ago??? We havent spoke since we split and just ignore each other when we see each other out but recently everytime he sees me he gives me a weird look or grabs his gf and kisses and hugs her ... (186 words)

Three week's ago, he told he didnt love me. It's like he can't let himself be happy! What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - I'm 38, hes 46, he had been divorced 2 years and has twins with x, she got it all as he still hasnt sorted that part out yet, house and contents,the car and he gets the twins fri-sun once every 2 wk's. we were m8's for 8 months before we got together, we even lost a m8 through ... (219 words)

It went cold and just wants to be friends, what can I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F)

- I had been going out with this boy for 2 weeks and he ended it while i was holiday. he told my friends it wasnt working but we had only met up 1 since we had been together coz he was then ill and i then went to france for 10 days. At the start of the holiday he text me saying ... (120 words)

I hate the thought of being the cause of her leaving her husband

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

29 August 2006 (M) - I am 37 years old and back in April met and instantly fell in love with a married woman 8 years my junior. I didnt know she was married at first we were talking in a group of friends and I couldnt take my eyes off her then I found out she was married. For the next 2 nights we... (403 words)

After sex this guy didnt talk much to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - so im sleeping with this guy, and he's said things like we're perfect for each other, he wants to know everything about me, and how he's glad i like him for more than just "ass". the thing is, the other night we finished, and he was just hanging out but didnt talk much to me. ... (99 words)

He still talks to her like once a week

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F)

- Please help me figure this out. My bf says he is over his ex but something is telling me he's not. This was 2 years ago when they broke up. He still talks to her like once a week until I told him no. She recently got married and now he is talking marriage with me which makes me ... (134 words)

The 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling is gone with my bf.....but that feeling is there with his best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - Ok i'm 16 and my 19 yr old boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now and problems are starting to arise. For one, I no longer want to be intimate...Having sex and kissing just freak me out...It's like everytime we do someting it's the same as the last... i ... (204 words)

Will my parents split my boyfriend and I apart if I am pregnant? How do i tell them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6690 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - i forgot something in the last question. my boyfriend said even if i am pregnant he wont leave me, and wants to spend the rest of his life with me no matter what the outcome is cause what ever happens is meant to happen. but if i am pregnant idk how to tell my parents..im only ... (120 words)

We had sex with no condom..but he didn't ejaculate. I am so scared of being pregnant! Advice needed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

29 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i had sex for the fist time yesterday. we didnt use a condom, but he didnt cum. im still scared of being pregnant. can someone help me? what do I do.... (35 words)

I cant tell him is that I love him more than a friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

29 August 2006 (F)

- i think im in love withmy best boy mate, weare so close and talk on the phone nearly every night, i have no idea how he feels about me because theres no tale talesigns. He knows me inside out and i always tell him whats on my mind, but the one thing i cant tell him is that i ... (121 words)

He said we could live together once he is retired

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

29 August 2006 (F)

- Iv been having a relationship with a man for 3 years,he has never been married or has had kids.He works away during the week because he is in the RAF and he comes down to see me at weekends though i have spent some time at his house during the week.The problem is i have 2 ... (172 words)