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writes:I want to have a threesome but my boyfriend doesn't think it's a good idea (how crazy is he?!)We're both very jealous people and can't even bear to see people each other have been with in the past. But I just get really turned on by doing something really filthy and don't think about the consequences! How can I get this in the relationship just between us two, as he thinks bringing someone else in will break us up?He's a great guy, as you can probably tell, not many guys would say no to this, would they?! But I want more exitement and I want us to last. Is a threesome a bad idea for us? Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): I have a better idea. Dump him and we should start going out. Then give us a few months and I'll be happy to entertain a threesome or any kind!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2006): If you both struggle with jealousy, why would you want to introduce another person into this unhealthy dynamic which would only make it explode? It is not very wise.
If the trust and respect is there then there is no need for a threesome. Even if you still chose to do so, the trust and respect would have to be intact to survive a threesome.
I say if you can not be in a healthy relationship then end it.
If you want to be with this man then get some couple's counselling to better address your insecurities and anger issues.
What do you want more...the excitement or the lasting as of now, they are in direct conflict with one another.
A relationship is about the "we" and not the "me". Keep this advice with you and live it.
I do in fact think a threesome is a bad idea. Probably not what you wanted to hear but I gave you my honest opinion.
Think on this. Think about the counselling.
In the end you decide.
Best of luck Girl.
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reader, camille +, writes (8 August 2006):
 He's not crazy, you are. You admit to both being jealous, so I'd say he is the sensible one. Surely you can find something else to do that will turn you on, that won't involve him doing something he's not comfortable doing and will almost certainly mark the end of your relationship? My fella would aslo say no, but that's because we're enough for each other. Just because some men may fantasize about thressomes, don't assume the same number would go ahead and actually do it. That's why it's a fantasy, cos the reality is nothing close for many. Maybe do some role play that involves something you deem 'filthy'.
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