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writes: hello. i need advice about my relationship.. the problem is my partner and i have been together over 3 years now and i so far our families have'nt met i have invited his daughters to visit several to meet with mine but so far without success.. there are issues between their parents which is not of my doing but i get the feeling that the x is a bit of a nut.. when we first met i thought everything was fine until we shook hands, she nearly broke my fingers and the look of sheer venum was scary,, but i put it aside, three years down the line and the last straw was when his daughter had a baby he went along to visit her with his x and his daughter.. we were supposed to be going together but he said the x offered him a lift and so he went, i feel totally betrayed and dumfounded that this man does'nt seem to think there is a problem.. so i have called it a day.. have done the right thing?plz hlp. Reply to this Question
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reader, justice +, writes (8 August 2006):
well girl you did the right thing by leaving him cause it seems like he is still in love with his ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2006): Wait.
It is evident that you were learning about your comfort zone while you were dating and therefore should have discussed them with your EX Boyfriend.
I do have to say that no matter what, he will always be the father of his children and his Ex will always be the mother of their children. As long as their are children; there will be gathering and events that will bring them together.
I don't think it is right or fair of him to exclude you either. If his insensitive exclusion of you is for the EX; he's made the wrong choice. She is his Ex for a reason.
I think if you want the BF back; tell him how you feel and come to an agreement of rules. If he is not set on including you and putting you first-then stay away Sweetie.
A man in love will do his all for the woman he cherishes.
*hugs*
Hang in there.
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