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writes: i need advice so ladies please help. I was with my girl for a about a year but about 2 months ago she broke up with me saying she didn't feel the same way about me anymore. I have left her alone have never tried once to contact her. She told me that she wanted to be her again that she forgot who she was and that she would be changing her number. Well a couple of days ago my friends ran into her at a bar (she looked beautiful) she asked about me to my best friend. Later that night i starting getting Phone calls which were hang up's which I can bet anything they were from her as I know her. This does mean that she still cares about me or thinking about me as I am still so much in love with her and want to still be with her. I treated her good when i was with her is she having doubts or thinking twice about me any advice would help so thanx in advance
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 I think you should leave the ball in her court. She'll let you know if she is interested. Stay busy and good luck!
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (8 August 2006):
 Well, your hunch could be right. She might still be missing you, although not necessarily meaning that she wants to get back together. But whatever it is, if I was you, Id hold back on my feelings at this point. Why you ask? Well, from your tone of voice, youve done pretty well without her (regardless of whether you still want her back or not) till now. So why let this uncertainty break your rhythm and get you back to when you were first heart broken. I mean to begin with, you arent even 100% sure if she called you, and even if she did, can you be sure she wants to get back with you, or was just a drunk one off call? Youd never know. I suggest to protect yourself, you just let it be, keep holding back from contacting her, and if that really was her calling/she wants to get back together, she WILL NOT be able to pull herself back from contacting you again! If that was her calling, it goes to show that shes already thinking twice about you, so let her be sure of herself first and let her call you, properly! Let her be the one who tells you what she wants. You hang on there and you'll be fine!
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reader, camille  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 Why not call the number back, witholding your number to see if she answers? If she does, ask her why she is hanging up. If she wants to see you again, take it from there. If not, these calls are totally unacceptable because she is playing with you. You could write her a later telling her how you feel? I had an ex who used to get drunk every night and call my phone, it quickly turned into something very unpleasant. It's dangerous as you still love her as you will like the attention and the contact. But you need to see them for what they were, nuisance calls. Just because you love her and she may have called you, doesn't mean she's had a change of heart either, so be careful and look after yourself in all this or it will end up with you getting hurt again.
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