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writes: My ex boyfriend and I decided to give it another go about 6 weeks ago. I've just finished school so i'm now having an extra long summer holiday before college, and he's 2 years older than me, working only on Saturdays in a phone shop. Everything is absolutely 100% perfect in our relationship at the moment and i'm the happiest that i've ever been in all my life. but i've only got 4 weeks until i start college. We'll only have time to see eachother 1 day a week, and as i know his personality very well, I can see him not wanting to have to make such an effort to keep our relationship going, and choosing the easy option by finding someone else. I know he loves me because he looks at me the way that i look at him, and he really has changed his ways for me (he used to be with a different girl every day). Yesterday he spend half his wages on a necklace for me, just because he thought i would like it.We talked about our future last night. He said he could see me after college and help me with the work, and that he's looking for a full time job so that he can afford his own flat for the both of us (He's currently living in his friend's rat-infested bedroom, sharing his kingsize bed).The problem is i think the situation is out of my hands. Is there nothing i can do? please please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, camille  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 Stop worrying about something that hasn't happened. It's a waste of energy and that will affect your relationship. When you go to college you will see reason to worry only IF what you fear actually happens, until then, just enjoy it and continue being happy.
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