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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

On birth control pills but I missed 4 days worth...could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Please, I need any advice, im confused. Ok heres the situation...I started birth control first day of my period and had a normal 5 day period. Next 10 days was visiting my fiancee so we were having sex during those 10 days, which should've been around the time I figured my body ... (112 words)

I'm in Amsterdam and having trouble sticking to my no sex before marriage belief!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - Hi I am in my late 20s and am still a virgin. I have been able to control myself till now as i neither had any girlfriend nor any great desire to lose virginity before marriage..It is getting difficult day by day and staying in Amsterdam (Sex capital of the world) doesnt he... (73 words)

I just feel resentment towards my BF of 3 years because of his lack of attention to me on all levels...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles: I have been in a relationship for the past three years that is constantly deteriorating. He is unnattentive to my needs and cannot communicate on any kind of emotional level. Intimacy doesn't exsist between us and sex happens twice a month if... (183 words)

I met my internet girl but right after our meeting she has almost ceased contact...is it me or the abortion she just had?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - I was talking to a girl I met through a dating website for months before meeting. I thought she was amazing. She said it was the best night she’d had in ages. Right after though, she talked to me far less, but she promised me it wasn’t because of me. It was because she was ... (294 words)

Pregnancy test said negative but is it accurate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Ok i havent had my period for 3 weeks now and i took a pregnancy test but it said I'm not pregnant. But i feel like i am. Do the tests mess up sometimes or is it accurate?... (38 words)

I like my best male friend - should I tell him and risk our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Hi my best friend is the guy that I like and I'm not sure whether I need to just tell him and see how he reacts, or whether I should keep it a secret incase he has different feelings for me and wants to stay friends. I am afraid that if i tell him he will act strange around ... (64 words)

I try to talk to my crush at the bus stop but I get tounge-tied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - I have been going to the same bus stop as this guy and everytime i try to speak to him i can't. I have been asking my friends for help but they dont take this seriously. I need some advice please help. I find this realy silly because i am 13.... (51 words)

I have 3 failed marriages behind me - should I tell my new love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - I am a 49 yr old male, three failed marriages behind me, 1 my fault the others not. i have recently met the women of my life and not of my dreams, looks fade personality is forever. She does not know about my first two marriages and I am really torn as to if i should tell ... (115 words)

My husbands mother passed away and now he won't have sex with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - What should I do? Last year my husband's mother passed away. Since then he has refused to have sex with me! They had an extremely contentious relationship, and many issues remained unsettled between them. I know he was subject to her emotional and physical abuse as a chi... (91 words)

Why does she treat sex as if it's something comical and funny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - Okay well my girlfriend offered too buy me come 'CLIT SWEETS' from Anne Summers and i dunno why but i thought it was a bit immature and rude. My girlfriend is lovely and a really nice girl but she can be a bit immature at times. Its like 'im having sex with someone who finds ... (79 words)

Attracted to my girlfriend's friend: she's hot, but she's got problems! I lie about the attraction and I hate it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - It started as a crush, but my feelings grow. And I don't know why!! I love my girlfriend very much and have no intention of leaving. The other woman is one of her best friends if not her best- she also lives across the street, has a drinking problem, tends to be rude and self ... (211 words)

What is my ex thinking? Does he want me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - I met this boy unexpectadly and we were going out for 2 weeks and in that time I started having feelings for him. Then he ended up breaking up with me and I was left hurt. A few weeks later I met someone else and took this boy to a club and my ex was there. He seen me with the... (113 words)

I can't get over this guy, because I know I'm going to see him again and again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - hi, I'm 16 and I have had a a crush on this boy for 2 years. I asked him out but he doesn't feel the same and said no. We have now left school and going to the same college. I haven't seen him in like 6 months and I was sort of beginning to get over him but then I saw him in t... (129 words)

My best friend likes the boy I like, and I wonder if I should leave her to it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - I'm in desperate need for help. My best friend loves/likes this boy that I have strong feelings for. I was talking to him first, but then she somehow started liking him, and thought he says he has no feelings for her at all. I'm confused as to whether I should leave him alon... (144 words)

What wrong..he can't get erect to satisfy me? Is it me or all this porn he watched?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have just started seeing someone who i really like. Last weekend we had sex for the first time at his place, it was great, although he didn't cum. We then drove back to mine, and altough we were really "into it", he wasn't errect. The same thing happened the next ... (250 words)

Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (M)

- OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask because I have 2 friends ... (67 words)

If I take some time and reinvent myself, I hope my ex will want me back! Workable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - Hi i have just broke up with my girlfriend of three and half years, and i was in denial in the end that it was over. We had not been getting on and she was hung up on past arguments and stuff and lost faith that we could get on. She told me that she wanted it over due to all t... (415 words)

I lied about my age!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Hello, A few weeks ago I met a boy who I instantly got along with. He told me he was 18 and so I lied about my age and said i was 17, a year older as I'm actually 16. At the time I didn't think I would see him again, so i didn't think It would cause any problems to lie abou... (167 words)

After 2 and 1/2 years, she dumped me ..today. I am devastated...Need help coping!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - my girlfriend of two and a half years just broke up with me today. she said she isn't in love with my anymore. i'm devistated and don't know how to cope with it. any suggestions, please?... (39 words)

Can I make it easier for him to make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - Hi peeps, I am really confused at the moment and could do with some advice so please help! :) I met someone at the beginning of July and had been chatting to him over MSN for a month or 2 before that, liked him then as a friend but also thought there may be a chance for more,... (288 words)

Need some good ideas to start building back that lost trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i just broke up because we've been dealing with trust issues; dealing with my past. there are some things i am not ready to tell him... he is giving me a chance to prove to him that he can trust me.. but only as friends.. what are some ways to start building ... (59 words)

I don't want to lose my bf but I have drove him away! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - i done want lose my boyfriend but i have drove him away help... (13 words)

He 'played' over my underwear and then it started to hurt? Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Hey, this is sorta embarassing but, here it goes, im 14 years old, my bf is 15 (16 soon) i really love him, trust him, we've been dating for over 3 months now and were always very close for a bout a year before that, ive tossed him off but made it clear that i wont do anymore ... (160 words)

I don't want to have sex with my bf! He wants it and I am scared he will hurt me if I turn him down! Please help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - hi, im 16 and im going out with a boy, but he wants sex and i dont want to i want to wait until im 20 or even marriage but he keeps pushing me into it and im suppose to see him tommorow and night and do it but i don't want to, i can't tell him because he gets angry and slap... (187 words)

I'm trapped! If I dump my bf of 3 years, my family will be devastated! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - I feel so desperate i dont know where to turn. I have been wanting to end things with my boyfriend of 3 years (who lives with me) for a few months now, and normally i wouldnt hesitate, as i know i will be fine on my own, but he has made himself such a huge part of my familys ... (190 words)

Boyfriends mum is suss that we have had sex. Tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - well me and my boyfriend had sex and his mum keeps makin hints as if she nos like the other day she was in the car with my boyfriend and she asked him if i was on the pill and if we were virgins we havnt told our parents and are scared to abit cos were not 16 yet. what should ... (69 words)

He's waiting on his ex gf to decide whether she wants him back...but I love him! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - my husband left me and my two children around 8 months ago and I had a really difficult time until I met a guy in April. I have totally fell for this guy but have only seen him around once a week since we met as he works away. He has just come out of a long term relationship ... (251 words)

Does he want a casual relationship or a serious one? He keeps giving me mixed signals! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - hi, im 18 and im seeing this guy who's 30 he has a daughter whos 8, he seems really caring but i dont know whether he wants a casual relationship or a serious relationship, and the thing is there is too much people that will get hurt if we are serious and he keeps giving me ... (79 words)

Is he flirting or just messing with my head? Help me-what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - How can I tell if a guy at works likes me. I think he flirts with me and we get on real well. Were both single but I dont want to make a move in case im reading the signs wrong then it will be uncomfortable working togther. Basically he talks to me mostly out of the other girls ... (112 words)

She left and said she doesnt trust me and isnt sure she wants to be with me... what to do now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - For the past 6 months, my partner and i have been having difficulties. She left me a few days ago and moved back in to her parents', leaving the home we shared together. she says she no longer trusts me and isn't sure she wants to be with me, but she still loves me. i ... (89 words)

Would I now be referred to as a tart!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - I met this boy who i was talking to for a couple of weeks and went to his house and we was talking to each other. We started kissing for hours, then he fingered me. Am i a tart? ... (39 words)

I can't get my girlfriends past sex life out my head

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - Hi - hope you can help. Have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and just found out that she has been a lot more sexually active than I - sleeping with at least 14 different partners (she is 32). I think this is a lot personally, I am 25 and have slept with 3 ... (234 words)

If I ask her out now shes a free agent will my feelings come back ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - Hey I have a bit of a problem. There is was this girl, and about a year ago I was madly in love with her, I thought about her all the time and really wanted to be with her. BUT she had a boyfriend so I gritted my teeth and got over her after about 6 months. Now she has recen... (139 words)

I asked why he won't talk to me on msn and he wrote "F**k ya!"

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F)

- He says he doesnt want to speak to me. but i dont understand why.i asked him on msn and he said cz, i drew ... and he wrote f*** ya and went offline. shud i ask him agen? or leave him to it and see what he does? its really confusing me.... (52 words)

I'm supposed to be getting married, but I have feelings for someone else!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - I have a partner of 3years and we are due to get married next July. I love him to death but there is a guy at work I think is really nice n gorgeous and he is a bit older than me and married. We get on so well and flirt alot. Do i tell him how I feel or just leave it alone. ... (78 words)

Love someone with realising it? - is that even possible!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F)

- Is it possible to love someone without realising? theres this lad i used to like but i dont anymore. but when he said he didnt want to speak to me anymore i cried. do i still love him without realising it? he was also my friend though before things got complicated. can anyone ... (54 words)

Boyfriends oral on me left him tasting of beer! Harmful or just grose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Sorry this is pretty gross but I have thrush but my bf gave me oral sex anyway. I kissed him afterwards and ended up with a yeast taste in my mouth like beer. When I realised that this taste was the thrush discharge I began feeling ill, and have done since. Basically i was ... (89 words)

my secret bi-curious wife is on a dating website!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (M) - I was working on our home computer yesterday, which my wife uses far more often, and found by accident that she had visited a dating website. I was very surprised since we've been together for a long time, have two young children and I thought we had a good stable relationship. ... (144 words)

Hey girls! How do you react when you orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

22 August 2006 (F)

- How do you girls react when you orgasm, I just think the way I react is strange? Thanx... (18 words)

I broke up with my married man, he said we have to stop as so far divorce isnt an option...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - i'm in a very bad condition. I broke up with a person who is married and has a child,he was telling that he loves me and and he will get a divorce, but after he was talking with his relatives,because he doesn't have parents, he said to me that we have to stop because his rela... (100 words)

Go for this guy and get beat-up - or run for the hills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F)

- Me and this guy always flirt around. We have never kissed but we have gotten close. He has a baby's momma that hates me though. She is saying she is going to beat me up and I don't want to get beat up but I really like this guy. We get along fantastically. Should I go in for ... (70 words)

I really cant get past his use of Sex lines!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Where to start? One year ago I began to feel suspicious of Wes's behavior (We have been together 2.5 years). He told me I was "crazy", had to stop it when I questioned him, and even told me to have "faith". Exactly three days after telling me I had to have such faith, I ... (548 words)

Together 5 years, been split for 8 months but we still have sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - My ex and I have been split up now for about 8 months. We were together for five years and have known each other for 9 years. It was a pretty bad break up. He called one day, and of course I asked how high when he told me to jump. I'm having a really rough time getting over ... (112 words)

I don't know how to proceed because I want to respect her and her current relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6697 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - i don't know what to do about this girl. we've got the weirdest relationship, and i feel like there's so much sexual tension built up between us that we just can't express. i know for a fact that we both used to like each other a lot, but she's now in a relationship. so we ... (225 words)

We have a perfect relationship except I get nasty when I drink and he can't take much more of it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

22 August 2006 (F)

- Hi I am 19 and my boyfriend is 25. I love him with all my heart and I know he feels the same. We have a perfect relationship except for one thing. Everytime I get drunk I change. I turn into a nasty spiteful person. I shout and say nasty hurtful things to my boyfriend and he ... (117 words)

I had unprotected sex with my married cousin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

22 August 2006 (?) - dear cupid. I'm in desperate need of guidance. Since having unprotected sex with my cousin I'm worried I might be pregnant. He has a wife and four children that he lives with and another child that he has refused to see for 14 years. What do i do???... (48 words)

When is a good time, if at all, I should bring up my sexually absused past to my future partners?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6697 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - When you're in an intimate relationship, when is an appropriate time to mention being sexually abused? When I was 13, my stepdad basically assaulted me on 3 occasions. I finally told my mom, she kicked him out, life was hell for a few years, but I'm okay now. It's jus... (122 words)

My unfounded paranoia is tearing our relationship apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

22 August 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriends relationship used to be bliss. but now i have become really paranoid. In my heart i know i trust him but my paranoia is tearing us apart and he's my first love, he's my everything. Please help... (41 words)

My BF doesn't believe that I love him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

22 August 2006 (?)

- Hey I got a boyfriend, I'm 16 and he's my first love. I love him soo much. The problem is he doesn't believe me. I tell him i do, i try to explain how i feel and what I'm feeling, but he just gets moody. Its starting to be all the time. He tells me he loves me, and then i say i ... (110 words)