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writes: I'm still speaking to my ex boyfriend and we've decided to remain friends but now, he's inviting me to spend the night at his house. I'm so confused, I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to stay because he's going through a rough time right now with everything(nothing to do with us) and I want to be there for him and another part of me doesn't want to stay because it would be too weird. I don't know what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2006): Let him stay your Ex boyfriend.
Do not go over to his house. He is an Ex for a reason and remember that.
Let him go through the rough time and support him but this does not mean staying the night with him. Don't invite in the chance of having intamacies with him and therefore complicating things for you and him. Be wise.
Love and respect yourself.
Tell him that you and some friends can take him out to dinner or for a hang at a local park.
Just don't be alone with him.
It is hard to still have feelings for someone but don't let his cravings for sympathy lull you into something you could regret.
Are you seeing someone else?
How would you feel if the someone else went and spent the night at his Ex's?
Just be a friend to him, that isn't so wrong.
It will come clearer with time.
Good luck Sweetie.
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reader, justice +, writes (8 August 2006):
look you are just torn in between the two but you know what you would be a fool if you would go spend the night tell him you are sseing someone move on with your life sweetie hes the past a man aint nothing but a tool you got to know when to take him out the box and when to put him back in and if you lose one then hell go out and get you another one take a chance baby do something with your life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2006): Oh my goodness no you should not stay over at your ex house...cant you see he still loves you. he may be going through a hard time right now but you can still help him without staying the night. what are you going to do if you start to have past feeling for him?? and then he is all sad and you feel sorry for him... then the next thing you you you both are talking about what went wrong in your relationship and then things lead to another and thats just another problem.you could talk to over the phone at night if that is what he needs. all i know is that it is not a good idea for you to stay at his house over night. it could lead to things that you might not want.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 well if he is going through a rough time at the minute then stay with him to show him that you are a good friend to him however stay in a completely different room to him so that it wont be a case of the both of you waking up next to each other, butjust make sure that he isnt asking you over because he has nobody else.
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