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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What constitutes the 'ideal' relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Hi All, This is a quick question... Can anyone give me their view on what constitutes the ideal relationship partner? Is mutual love, respect and commitment/loyalty enough?? Thanks tons, Miss Doubtful x... (45 words)

My trainer flirts with me-but I'm married! Am I reading him wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - I also have a trainer flirtation story. I need to know if I am reading this guy wrong. I started working with a trainer and we flirted...a lot. He was sweet and always said things that made me wonder about his feelings. We would have very intimate talks and he would tell me ... (288 words)

How do I get a guy to notice me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - How can you get a guy to notice you when your 15 yrs old. I need advice.... (17 words)

After a huge argument he dumped me, but I want to make him love me again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and i had a huge argument ..... and it caused him to break up with me. I was fine with it because I was just so cross with him ... but now I'm begining to miss him and i dont know how he feels about anything but i want him to feel the same ..... because i really ... (88 words)

Is it love that I'm feeling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - How do you know if you love someone? There is this guy I know and are dating. I have known him for quite a while and we only see each other at weekends but as it's the holidays and I'm seeing him more often at the moment. I feel as if i can smell him and i really miss him ... (95 words)

My ex is ruining my new relationship and ultimately my life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - I am a 27 year old guy and 2 yrs ago I was dumped by my 8 months pregnant girlfriend after 5 yrs of being together. She told me there was no chance of getting back together. So after 2 months of trying it was time to give up. About 4 months after the relationship had ende... (286 words)

We've gone for counselling to help our relationship, but I'm falling for the counsellor!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - My partner and I are having sex counselling at Relate. It is going quite well, but I think I have fallen in love with the counsellor! I know about transference and it maybe only this but I am very attracted to him, (almost immediately-his sense of humour, his sexy eyes). He ... (70 words)

Back in my life 18 years after our daughter was born. We're both married and unhappy, so could we possibly work as a couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Has this happened to anyone else?? I met a guy 19 years ago. Started to really like him and then fell in love with him. He later told me he was married. I got pregnant and had the baby..knowing he would probably not be involved. Our daughter is now 18 years old. Last year... (260 words)

Haven't heard from my man in four weeks! Has he found someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- Me and My Partner have been dating a while now and he's recently gone to Malta with his parents for 2 weeks. We're both in college and I've text him 3 times now and he hasn't replied. I'm worried he doesn't love me anymore or he's found someone else because I've not heard from ... (95 words)

A workmate is playful and sends flirty emails, but I don't know if he's serious!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - I have recently started a new job and I have been getting on really well with one of my colleagues but I am not sure whether he is being friendly or he likes me. He was training me within my first few weeks. He kept making me laugh and was sort of playfully touching me as if... (205 words)

Doing whats best for mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - I hope this question is allright for this site. My mom has dementia and alzheimers and it was decided that we should have a family conference to discuss her future. She was caught wandering the streets by the police and so we are probably going to put her in a home. My brother ... (206 words)

Prison Break

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Dear cupid im going through something right now my boy friend is in jail for a couple of months and me and my girlfriend was hanging out with her boyfriend and his cousin and i really like him i dont know what to do should i tell my bf thats its over so i can talk to my girls ... (73 words)

Yearning for her attention

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - i really like a girl she is a year older than me we were really good friends then my friends told her i had a crush on her and then they asked her out for me she said no and now when she is alone she acts kind with me but if she is with a friend she is always mean and saying ... (74 words)

Love hurts

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years. After talking to a few friends, I am convinced that I did what was best for myself. However, I still love him and I am fighting urges to call him and tell him it was all a mistake. This is the first relationship I've ever been ... (78 words)

To Kegal or not to Kegal ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - what are kegal exorcises? and what do they do? and how do you do them? please help... (17 words)

How to find mr/mrs right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - hi im only 17 but i no im gay but i just feel ive come to the point where i cant be alone anymore and realy feel like i need to start a relationship i just dont no where to start i look on the internet but every think seems to be for over 18s i feel i cant wait anymore... (61 words)

150 girls or less!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend for a year and, except for my problems with his past and the number of one night stands he's had, everything has been fine. Today, we were talking about it and he said I'm being silly and I'll never find someone who is better than him. He's sle... (154 words)

Got drunk, slept with my best male friend. Now I have deeper feelings and am getting depressed about it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - He's been my best friend for more than two years now, and I've been in love with him from the day we met. We recently had a brief fling that started as a night of drinking too much. I knew it was a bad idea because I knew he wasn't really interested in me, and just on the ... (101 words)

Totally in love with someone who loves someone else as much as I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - I am in love with a girl. Completely, madly, absoloutely in love with her. I was friends with her for a while before we started going out. We went out for a month, and then she left me for someone else. I want her back really bad, but the thing is, she is in love with this ... (143 words)

He told me, "Bros before hoes". Should we just break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Me and my bf's 6 month anniversery was a lil less then a week ago...on our ann. I guess he was with his friends trying to find ways to break up with me and he was texting this chick. The next day everything was back to normal and that nite I found out he'd been texting ... (121 words)

I told my boyfriend that I wasnt excited about our relationship anymore, now hes very distant and I regret it... Please help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I recently made the mistake of spilling some feelings I had to my boyfriend. What was going on was, since we've been together for quite awhile, I was feeling a little bored with our relationship and not very excited anymore and I told him that. Ever since then, he... (152 words)

Is it normal to orgasm and then not want any more sex ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - when me and my boyfriend have sex, after i orgasm i feel like i don't want to do it anymore and i feel like maybe i only like him for sex or something but then after he is done, i was attached to him again. I'm confused. Is this normal?... (51 words)

Found some texts to another girl on his phone, is he cheating ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - i think my boyfriend is cheating on me because i found texts off another girl on his phone saying "hi babe sorry about last night i'll make it up to you love ya" but when i confronted them they said i have nothing to worry about they are good mates and he went to school with ... (76 words)

Hard to deal with my dad passing when I was 5, I resent mum because of it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- when i was young (5, im now nearly 15) my dad died, and i cant say ive had an easy life since. But sometimes i resent my Mum and even hate her, because she was left behind and not him. I know thats a horrible thing but im so mad i never knew him and i dont really like my mum ... (156 words)

Worried because my best friend has left and the others may resent me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- I have a best friend at school, well not anymore because she just left our school because her parents wanted her to work harder. But now shes left she was very popular and im scared people will resent me because shes the one who left and not me. im also scared people will judge ... (68 words)

We talk all the time, and he's said he wants to hang out, but is he just bored and looking for someone to talk to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - I'm almost 16 and I've been talking online with this guy that's 18. He went to my school, but we never really talked because he had a girlfriend at the time but not now. He has started IM'ng me almost every day and seems really nice. I know some of his friends. I'm confused... (179 words)

I enjoy getting off to lesbian porn, but dont actually fancy women !!???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - am i gay? i am 19 im attracted to guys and love having sex with guys but i keep havin lesbian fantasies and it turns me on to watch lesbian porn but im not attracted to girls, i am so confused........ (41 words)

What a boy wants

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - hi im 13 and i am just learning about boys and how basically all they think and care about is sex and women. i am now really upset cos thts all boys want :( so they have no respect for girls tht means :( i hate it! i hate tht that is all they care about! why is tht all they care... (104 words)

My brother gets away with everything and its really not fair! What should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - hi am 14 years old and i am fed up with my brother who is 16 he always swears and my mum hardly does anything about it a part from shouting at him but he still does it again. But recently i hid my brothers game and my mum told me to give it back but i didnt. As i walked out the ... (96 words)

Girls Gone Wild!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Ok back in 2004 I was on the show girls gone wild in Miami, Florida. I loved it. Being with girls, having sex with girls. But now that I don't see them that often as I used to, How do I find a girl to get with? There it was so simlpe because every girl was either bi or a ... (69 words)

The dreaded ex!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - she dumped me 11 months ago for her married boss with 3 kids and i was devestated. Now im trying my best to move on but she keeps texting me virtually every week and finding any excuse to try and strike up some sort of conversation between us,i have never texted her first. This ... (118 words)

I orgasm when I got the loo!! Seriously how can I can stop this ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Ok I need some serious help. About two years ago I started doing kegel exercises every day. Needless to say it really helped. I experience way, way better orgasms, and I can grab a hold of things a alot better. If you know what I mean. Now sometimes when I pee I orgasm. I know ... (98 words)

Is my sneaking bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (?) - Hi, I'm 13 and my step cousin is 15,and I think i fancy her. Ok, shes family (in a way) but I'm attracted to her and take pictures of her on my mobile saying i'm texting. I've even sneaked into her room when she was out and saw a bra on her bed and felt bad for sneaking in... (105 words)

The person who gave my boyfriend an STD 10 years ago turns out to be someone I know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend has recently informed me that someone I know is the person who gave him an STD 10 years ago. I have to see this girl all the time and it kills me. He doesn't know whether or not she knew she had it at the time but he ended up with it anyway. I'm mad at him too for ... (163 words)

Handy Work!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- hi all i was just windering if anyone could tell me how to toss a lad off i don't ave a clue what to do.... plz help xxx... (28 words)

What's the secret question?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - What is the "Secret Question" to ask a stranger if they are gay?... (13 words)

Can she fall in love again with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (M)

- My partner of three and half years left me because she had lost that loving feeling, how she felt changed and she didnt have the spark anymore. Our relationship had ups and downs, but we did have a great love once, and this year we had a baby together but she did not want me a... (316 words)

My affir with my married guy ended...and I am heartbroken! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Im 24 years old and had a relationship with a married man'age 52. We broke up a week ago. I am involved in a relationship but my boyfriend didn't know about the affair neither did his partner. He ended the relationship because he didnt want to tell me where he's working and i ... (172 words)

Should I forget about trying to deal with my wife, and just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - We parted with my wife in October last year after having a long period of fights for over two years. Though I used counsellors to make things work she was adamant about moving out. She now stays alone with the baby. Any time I try calling she bangs the phone and I tried paying ... (85 words)

I was in bed with my boyfriend's best mate... When my boyfriend walked in on us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- my boyfriend and his best mate are really close there together all the time and class eachother as brothers. i was at my boyfriends house over the weekend while his mum an dad where away and we had a party and i got pretty drunk and ended up in bed with his best mate but insted ... (144 words)

Why do I fall for attached men, what is it that is missing from my life ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - why am i involving myself with married men.just over a year ago i had a affair with my second cousin,i finished it all and it all became very messy,i told my long term partner what i did,well we decided we both didnt love each other anyway and decided to part.i think this was ... (145 words)

She loves her online guy more than me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - Im 23 year old male, I've been dating my girl friend for about 4 months now. Recently our communication has kinda gone down the drain, we have hit a wall we cant get past. 2 days ago I found out after talking to her that she loves this guy she talks to online thats she has ... (223 words)

Does personality change as someone (a guy) ages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Do you think someones personality can change - as in mature as they grow older? I dated a guy when i was at school who was really immature and had only one thing on his mind (sex) so in a way selfish but i guess typical of all young blokes they get carried away with their ... (87 words)

He wants to try "woman on top", but I don't know how to do it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - My bf wants to try the girl on top position. I'm new to this. I don't know what I'm doing! Any advice!? We tried it before and i felt uncomfortable!! I didn't know how to move, how to position myself or anything! What do I do? Any advice?--thanks :)... (49 words)

Do you think my BF will still go to the bachelor party I wanted him to avoid?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - Hi--i am the one who wrote about the bachelor party and how i had an argument with my b/f about it and how he would still go. That argument was about 2 weeks ago or so. The wedding is not this weekend but next weekend and still no party has been mentioned unless he is keeping ... (151 words)

I've moved on since my husband left. Now he tells me he misses me and his new relationship is "not easy"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - My husband left me 10 weeks ago. Now his girlfriend wants to meet to discuss what happened and how we all move forward. My husband moved in with her for 3 days and moved home. He is constantly telling me how much he misses me etc, and how his new relationship is ... (79 words)

Our fights are threatening to ruin our relationship..what can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - hey- I'm a 19 yr old guy in a relationship with a 20 yr old girl. we've been together for 9 months. Of the nine months 7 of them have been long distance since i go to college 3 hours away but we see each other atleast once a month and on breaks. At the beginning of the ... (314 words)

Will I regret it if I go... further... with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

23 August 2006 (F)

- okay i have a question (obviously). my boyfriend and i love each other very much and i trust him deeply. lately we have been going further than we used to (physically speaking) and while in the moment i'm okay with things i am not sure if i should be. I'm pretty young (15) and... (138 words)

How do I please her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (M)

- I am not sure if i am pleasing my girlfriend. We arent having sex of course, but for the physical aspect of our relationship, she has just never really been thrilled while we were doing wut we do (just short of 3rd for those who want to know). Any tips on how i could make her ... (85 words)

I don't want to lose her - should I marry her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (M)

- 5 months into a relationship, and i feel like she's the world to me. Even with other girls offering me to go out with them instead of my current gf, my gf means the world to me and i would never want to lose her. yet, i am too young for marriage in my thoughts. Any clue what to ... (60 words)

She lied to me and fooled me! But she always keep saying that she loves me ..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

23 August 2006 (M) - 3 years ago,came to me a girl from florida while i was online in the yahoo messenger. asked me to open the cam , then i asked her to send me her pic first, and i insisted ,then she sent me her ,and she was little upset , when she saw me she liked me! we chatted , every one... (835 words)

I don't like my boyfriend having contact with his ex-wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 August 2006 (F) - I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship for 5 months and am 10 weeks pregnant by this man. My boyfriend is great, he treats me like a queen, is happy. We are having a baby and we are planning to get married sooner then later. The downside to this wonderful relati... (348 words)