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writes: dear cupid, i just found out my best mate has shagged my bf. and i dunno what to do? should i try and make a peace with her? or should i never talk to her again? or should i knock her brains out? im more unset with her because she knew how much i liked him please help me!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, bonym +, writes (8 August 2006):
Dont knock her brains out, that wont solve anything my dear. Why should you make peace with her, you have done no wrong, if she is a true friend she would acknowledge her evil and come and make ammends with you. Dont do anything, there is a system which works and it operates on the principle of karma, she will get her dues, and so will he, they will get what they deserve in time, leave them. You are a better person than them. Take care. xXx
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reader, camille +, writes (8 August 2006):
Don't waste your time and energy doing anything. He wasn't worth having and she is no friend.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (8 August 2006):
I cna understand your pain, this must be awful for you. Losing your best mate and your boyfriend at the same time? What idiots they are! Well, you can look at it 2 ways really. Do you want to forgive them and move on with her as a friend? Or, do you see that she is not a real friend if she could do that to you and you're better off without her?
I think you know which one is right, don't you? Move on and find some real friends who respect you and wouldn't touch your boyfriend, even if they really really liked him because they value the friendship with you more. Good luck
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