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writes: Is it normal to sometimes feel like you're his friend instead? Well, maybe i just think that. I mean right when he comes over most of the time we are clingy then after awhile like couple or few hours i feel like i don't want to be clingy. I know it's probably normal. I just want to make sure. I know i must want to be with him because when i thought he was doing something wrong i felt so hurt. Anyways thanks! =) Reply to this Question
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reader, camille  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 What's normal to you may not be for another. I personally have a relationship where we're almost always entwined or touching in some way, that's how we like it. If you're not comfortable doing that all the time, that's fine. Unless there are other things that you haven't mentioned........ You'll need to do some deep thinking about your feelings beyond what you've said as you may find with someone else you'd want to be in their arms 24/7......it depends on you and how they make you feel. If this is your first relationship it's hard to say, but if you've been clingy before, think about why you're not this time. It may be a comfort thing or it may be your feelings aren't what you think. You can love someone as a friend, you can also feel hurt by the actions of a friend so it doesn't necessarily mean he's right for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2006): It mainly depends on how long you have been together in the first stages of a relationship this is called the honeymoon period where you are clingy and loved up.Gradually this period developes when you become more comfortable with each other and you become best mates as well as lovers.Ive just hit that stage in my relationship and yes we are very tactile still but at the same time we are more relaxed around each other and when we arent so tactile it dosent mean anything less just the fact we are more relaxed with one another.
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