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writes: where do i start - i went out with this boy for a week. he broke up with me and text me and said i dont think it will work. i only see him weekends and chat with him once in a while on the phone. His mum said to mine he chases anyone in a skirt. he then rang me and said wud i go back out with him, then all of a sudden he said well i cant because im going out with someone else who wears a skirt. i think he is doing it out of spite because he thought i said he chases anyone in a kirt. What do you think?i then sore him the following week at work and he asked me to my face to go out with him again and i said i would think bout it. i then text him and said i have thought about it and i will, but he didnt answer me. i text him but he dont answer. he rings me occasionally but i miss him. what can i say to him by text for him to answer??? when i see him face to face hes flirtacious towards me and we get on well. The other thing is that we only see each other while working because he works from 10 till 10 and i work from 9 till 5. i want to go out but he has to work and during the week we cant see eachother because i live 2 hours away and only see him at the weekend because we have a caravan where he lives. Will it work?my questions are:is he just using me?what can i say to him to get his attention and think oh that sounds good i will text her back?will a long dstance relationship work?
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reader, Tine +, writes (8 August 2006):
being honest i think this guy is just asking you to reassure himself that he can get you anytime he wants. He must love the attention of being wanted or find himself a stud and does this to make him feel good about himself. Truth is i dont think it would work if you only see each other every so often, it will get to the point where you wanna se him all the time and it will hurt for you not being able to see him all the time. How about texting him saying that you dont wanna go out with him and see his reaction, by just saying yes everytime to him you are giving him the answer he is expecting of you and thats why he is not replying. This guy sounds like a complete time waster, and to avoid a broken heart in the future i suggest you just remain friends with him.
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reader, justice +, writes (8 August 2006):
no it wont work girl he is using you to get with other women he is flaunting you in front of every body heres what you do you tell him to meet you somewhere where there is a big crowd then you get loud and tell him to stop stolking you and he will get as much embarrassment as you did and then youll feel so much better?
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