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writes: I was seeing this guy,and asked him out right one day if he had a girlfriend and he dumped me. I later found out he didn't. We still see each other now and then and always end up having sex.When we're together its great, but when i'm away from him i can't stop thinking about him,Should i tell him that i want to be more than just his bit on the side? i don't wanna scare him off in any way though. Can't get him out my head.Please help, i don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, unclerich +, writes (10 August 2006):
i sorry to say kay but this guy only sees you as a bit on a side.wen you asked him if he ad a girl friend he dumped u that tells it all this guy might really like you but what is this guy really like??is a loving sweet guy or dont he ring u or see u for a week or 2?what does he do if you say ur busy?if it's all negative then my first prediction was right tell him you can't contue to be his bit on the side.its going to be hard.but at least u will learn from it and find someone who will giv you what you want and treat u right
let me no what you decide to do k
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2006): It is really up to to decide this one. But, think through it before you get rejected again. Does he really want to be with you or is he considering you just friends with benefits. you need to weigh all your options. Or just be brave and tell him. If it does'nt workout, there is someone out there better for you.
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