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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Turnabout is fair play, but she won't give me oral any more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7143 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. 2 years ago she stopped giving me oral sex butI give it to her every time we make love. How can I get her give me it return ?... (38 words)

My ex and I still live together, and he's keeping me from moving on with my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7144 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - hi there, I really need advice on my current and ongoing problem. I am a gay male and have been living with my ex boyfriend since October 2004. We split up on New Year but are still living together. I'm so unhappy, as all we ever do is argue and fight. I find it almost impos... (131 words)

Could it work out with my guy in Tunisia?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7143 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I met a guy in Tunisia and he wanted to marry me, but when I got home to England he seemed different over the phone. Could this had worked out for us being so far away from each other?... (39 words)

I know I wanted to break up, so why am I so sad now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7144 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I broke up with my boyfriend last night and for some reason althought I know it's what I wanted I am really sad and have cried. What can I do stop feeling like this and how do I stop him from not talking to me or being funny? ... (50 words)

Is he just being a "lad" or did he mean it about not wanting to move in with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7143 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I overheard my boyfriend saying to his mate that going travelling for while would be a good way to put off moving in with me. Is he likely to really mean this, and not want to move in with me, or is he just being a lad? I haven't asked him to move in with me, but I'm stil... (87 words)

I'm second-choice... after his friends or his sport. Why can't we have time together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7143 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for over 3 years and have always had to put up with feeling second best to either his friends, football etc and he always starts shouting if I ask why he won't spend at least one full day on a weekend with me. He always replies that I just don't ... (82 words)

Family always comes first with him... even before my feelings (long)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6891 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I have been dated this 25 year old man for more than four years and seven months. We are two every different people. He and his family are very old fashioned Mexicans. He was born here but mostly raised in Mexico. I am 22 years old I was born and raised in California. My family ... (807 words)

Should we stay together, even though we fight?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - If the bad times outweigh the good, if there is more arguing and fighting than anything else should a couple stay together? We have two kids and I love my partner more than anything but I can't take much more of the emotional abuse!!... (45 words)

He feels like he can break up and have me back any time he wants. Why does he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7144 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I'm hoping you can help me because I can't take this any more. I had a boyfriend for almost a year and a half and then he told me he wanted a break and needed time apart from me. I thought, okay whatever, I'll just give him this time, even though I was sad. A month later, he ... (322 words)

He lied to me about his smoking because I wouldn't have gone out with him. Will he lie in future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7137 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - Im 16 and have been goin out with this guy for about three months and at the beginning of our relationship I asked him if he does or have ever smoked. He told me he had tried it but then stopped. Just today I found out that he smokes almost every day! I don't like smokers ... (146 words)

I think I've ruined my chances with the guy I want... Is it gone for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7144 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have really "gone and done it" this time.And unfortunately, unlike Shania Twain,I don't mean "gone and done it" as in "fell in love".I mean "gone and done it" as in "totally messed up my friendship with my crush"...at least,that's what it feels like. He was ... (237 words)

I want to get back together with him, but I'm worried about this other girl and him alone together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I left my son's father in January b/c we were having problems and I thought we needed some time apart. Then it came out where he slept with some other girls. Now we want to get back together. I came over this week so we could talk snd try to work some things out. The main th... (139 words)

I'm interested in her, but she's only 16. Do I tell her or wait until she finishes school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7121 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Dear cupid, I have got a problem. There is this girl that I like but she is 4 years younger than me. I'm 19 and she is 16. The next thing is that I am a technician at the school she goes to. So what do I do? Do I tell her how I feel, wait till she finishes school and see w... (84 words)

After our "one nighter" the girl I love fell pregnant, but she doesn't know how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I had a one-night-stand with my best friend, and now she's pregnant. I've been in love with her since we were 15... and it's seven years later and she still doesn't know. I was so happy when she kissed me. Then she told me it was a 'one time thing' and she didn't want me like ... (104 words)

I've got no confidence and it's affecting my school and personal life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I'm 12 and have no confidence whatsoever. At all. I can't even ask a shop assistant how much something costs or a teacher if I have a problem. A lot of people like me... I guess, but I feel alone, even though my best friend is always there for me. I've never been bullied ... (244 words)

After getting married I was hot for sex with my wife... until we actually did it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7139 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I am 26. and I have been married recently. The problem is that in the first night of my marriage, my wife told me that she has menses, that continued for 4 days. For those four days I was feeling very hot for sex. And my erection was also great. But after four days my erection... (117 words)

I feel older than my years already...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7121 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - My husband is 13 years older than me and I guess he kind of makes me feel old too. I am 21 but I already feel old and out of style. When we go into clubs all the other girls look me up and down like I am not wearing the right clothes or something. I look at magazines and shop ... (117 words)

Everything about my new man seems to good to be true. I guess I'm waiting for it all to end...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7142 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - HI I have had a couple of relationships that ended due to them cheating on me. Last time it was with one of my friends. I've never had much luck with relationships. One of the guys even used to call me names telling me I was fat, which I'm not; he just knew how to upset me.... (335 words)

My boyfriend's parents don't like me and he takes advantage of me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend's parents look down their noses at me because they come from a posh area & I come from a rough area. My boyfriend has let them treat me like crap (he doesn't even get on with his family). He says he can't wait to move out of his family home. Every time the... (218 words)

Fallen hard for a close friend, but he's in love with someone already...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7144 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Hi, I have fallen for a good male friend of mine. He's been incredibly understanding, sweet and encouraging to me recently, and he makes me feel good about myself. He's also a wonderful person, great fun, and knows how to cheer me up. He's there for me when I need someone,... (277 words)

My new b/f's ex is still in the picture. Am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7143 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I am with my new boyfriend which I have been with for 10 months. He came out of a five-year relationship and he still talks to his ex. He says that there is nothing going on, but yet he keeps things from me like when he borrows money off her. Anyway last week he went to conce... (141 words)

The way he keeps changing his mind, I don't know if he loves me or not...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Can someone please tell me if it really is possible to live with someone who doesn't know whether they love you or not? My boyfriend has told me before that he does love me but when we argue he says that he doesn't know and now I'm not sure whether he has lied before about lo... (87 words)

The new guy and I got together too soon & I still need to be single...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7145 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I've just come out a 2 year serious relationship and have now met someone else and have been with them a few months now. I care about this person and am still friends with my ex-boyfriend. The problem is that I know I've made a mistake and rushed things for myself and want to ... (99 words)

We're close in so many ways... but I still don't know if we're friends or more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7121 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Hi I'm needing some advice. I'm a 24 yr old female & have a close friendship with this 31 yr old guy. We have known each other for a number of years but only in this last year or so have we become quite close. We spend all our time together, always texting or phoning each ... (231 words)

We've been rowing. I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and recently we have been arguing loads. Last night was where we ended it because of a huge row. We were pushing each other and shouting and he even spat in my face. I know everyone says to me to get rid of him ... (111 words)

Do men lose their sex drive? He's 34 and he's just 'not in the mood' any more...

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been together with my partner for a little over 2 years now and most things in the relationship are great.. actually they are more than great. The problem is my man has gone off sex and I don’t know what to do about it. I have talked this through with... (405 words)

We met through a singles club, but now we're serious and she's still a member...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7144 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I met my girlfriend in a local singles club. Now that we're serious she won't quit the club. What do I do?... (22 words)

I'm 15 and the father of my baby is 28. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I'm 15 and currently in a relationship with a man of 28. We have had sex and I know I'm pregnant! What do I do? He already has a child (as a single father) and I think he would go mad if I told him! Should I lie and say it's not his?... (53 words)

Because our relationship is a secret, I can't show how I feel in public. Do we continue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7139 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I'm seeing a guy, and we're keeping it secret. It's making it extremely hard to get alone time. I have been thinking that yes I really like him, but if I tried to end it, he'd be horrible, because he is to everyone... very arrogant, but is lovely towards me at the moment. I... (118 words)

He's 20 years older. What happens in ten years' time?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I am in love with a man 20 years older than me. He feels the same, but we're both worried what will happen in 10 years when I'm still young enough to go out and be a party animal and he will be considered an old man. Should we move forward to a relationship or nip it in the b... (71 words)

I worry that my penis might be tiny...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6520 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I'm worried about sex. I'm not thinking about having it now, but I'm worried about the future. First of all, and most important, I've been seeing questions about the foreskin. I'm 13 and my foreskin does not come back over my penis when I have an erection, is this bad now, or ... (115 words)

Our sex life was rocky to begin with, but it's getting worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7145 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - Hi, My question is me and my fiancee' have had a rocky sex life from the beginning and it's getting worse. First it was masturbation to porn that hurt me. Now he said he stopped; I don't believe that. Now he either can't keep an erection or can't get one. He is very inexperi... (70 words)

I'm 7 months pregnant, but my boyfriend left because he needs "time to think"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7144 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I am 19 and have been left 7 months pregnant and my ex says he doesn't know what he wants and that he needs time to think. I have now found out he is back with his ex and me and my baby don't count. He hasn't even tried to contact me. He has getting his friends to r... (92 words)

I'm uncomfortable with her sexually-active past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7126 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - My partner has had numerous sexual encounters with different men to the extent of reaching 20-30plus. I find her past hard to deal with, especially knowing some of the people and especially when meeting them whilst socialising. This usually ends up with us not talking and ... (66 words)

We're very much in love... but his profession would never be acceptable to my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7141 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - Forbidden Relationship - please give me some advice! Me and my boyfriend of 12 months are very much in love. We have a great relationship and are very happy. We have recently moved in together and things are going great. We are from different religious communities, whi... (159 words)

My husband is never passionate or even affectionate... All I want is a kiss after work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I am so tired of trying to get my husband to be passionate towards me. We have talked about it a hundred times and he is not doing anything to change like he said he would. I feel like I am just here to keep him company and keep his shit clean. He is always talking about how ... (142 words)

I'm "the only one" for him... but he's getting text messages from a girl he snogged...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7141 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - Please help me. I think I am driving myself mad with worry. Last year in September I started seeing someone, and later on found out that he snogged a girl who he worked with. He was man enough to tell me and knew he was wrong. Since then, we have been getting on perfe... (220 words)

My favourite position is man-on-top, but it just doesn't get me off. What's wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I love sex with my hubbie, but it is hard for me to cum when he is on top. Him on top is my favorite. Is there something wrong with me? I know there is nothing wrong with him. He is a big size. ... (44 words)

He said not to tell anyone after we had sex, but I did and now he's saying I've ruined his life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7138 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - I slept with a boy because I really liked him. Afterwards he told me not to tell anyone. I thought this was strange. I thought he was embarrassed of me. I told a few of my closest friends to see what they thought. He found out somehow - he told me one of his friends told him... (78 words)

When I argued with him he said he "loves me less" and threatened to leave...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7146 days ago

28 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend tells me that he loves me less when we have an argument. In fact, I am not really sure that he does love me. I have had some difficult relationships and I want this one to work because I love him so much and we do get on very well and really enjoy the time we have ... (314 words)

Even though I love my b/f, I'm just not sexually attracted to him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7146 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid... What does one do when they really, really love someone but they are not in love with that person? I love my boyfriend to death, but he doesn't turn me on. I once heard that after your sex life is gone, your relationship is doomed...Is that true???... (49 words)

I have to stay in touch with my ex for my son's sake. Did we do the right thing splitting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7146 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - My son's father has a mental health problem and we have been having a lot of ups and downs. We decided to split after a three-year relationship, I want to know if we have made the right choice, as we have a child together and need to stay in contact, which brings back the feel... (64 words)

With school and housework, I'm helping all I can, but my b/f wants me to get a job, too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7146 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I have been living with my boyfriend for 7 months now. He works and makes enough to survive. I am an international university student so I can only attend school, not work. Lately hes been pressuring me to find a job because I had a part time job before (a temp job) but it... (174 words)

Should I stay in my long-distance relationship, or take a chance with someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7147 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - Do I stay in a long distance relationship that's lasted 17 months, so far? The first few months he was local. I know him really well and we love each other. Or do I go out with a guy I've known since October last year, who I know reasonably well? He loves me and I love him and ... (65 words)

He travels a lot and could be getting up to no good. I'm having trouble trusting him, too...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend eighteen months. He is a business man and tends to travel a lot. Just recently he got a new phone and he gave me his old one which had messages on, which had proven he had cheated on me while he was away. I confronted him and he admitted he had k... (162 words)

How do I choose between two men who both love me?

This question has 213 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I have a very big decision to make. I don't know what to do. I am in love with 2 guys Paul and David. I had been going out with Paul for about 12months when i met David. We were going through a rough patch Paul and I. I made friends with David and we seemed to "click", we got ... (275 words)

Since we had problems, we talked and agreed to make changes, but I'm the one making them all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7144 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - My partner and I have been together for four years, and have a son. We have been having some problems, and recently managed to discuss things properly for the first time. We agreed we both needed to make some changes. However, it seems like it's me that makes all the changes!... (157 words)

The sex is poor, he doesn't treat me well, he drinks... and I feel lonely...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7147 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - It's hard to explain my situation in short question. I am 41 years young. I have been with my partner for 4 years. I feel very lost and lonely. The best time we had together happened within the first couple of months. We had good sex for about a month. We were really in love.... (360 words)

If my boyfriend loves me like he says, why is he also going out with another girl?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I am only 13 but I am in love with someone. He says he loves me too by telling me this, but he is going out with another girl. What I am confused about is if he loves me then why is he going out with this girl? I don't know what to do and I need major help as I am really c... (88 words)

Lately, my b/f says he's too tired for sex...and it's getting to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - I'm 17 & my boyfriend is 23. We are both young yet we don't seem to be having much sex lately & it's starting to get to me. I want it but he is always tired & it's getting me down. He says it's not that he doesn't want me it's just he is tired. What's wrong?... (57 words)