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My boyfriend's parents don't like me and he takes advantage of me...

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Question - (29 April 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2006)
A , *haz writes:

My boyfriend's parents look down their noses at me because they come from a posh area & I come from a rough area.

My boyfriend has let them treat me like crap (he doesn't even get on with his family). He says he can't wait to move out of his family home.

Every time they have a go at him I have to pick up the pieces & he begs me to stay at my family home. When I refuse because there aint enough room (my sister & her daughter is living with us as well as my bro & mum ) he starts accusing me of not wanting to be with him & that I want him to be unhappy. But that is untrue because I'm always there for him & I always do my best with him.

Hhe also tries to tell me what I can & cant wear ( I don't listen to him though ), who I can talk to & so on.

We split up once & I had a male friend stay at my house. He rang me up early in the morning telling me he didn't want my friend to stay in my house because he was jealous. He says he loves me.

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A female reader, liana +, writes (1 December 2006):

Honey I know you love him,but you deserve better,nobody deserves to be ill treated.Always rememder that you are a queen and that you have what it takes and that its all in your hands.God wants everyone to be happy and to enjoy life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2005):

Hi hunny. i just have one thing to ask you do you deserve to be treated this way.I am guessing that you will say no.You don`t have to be posh to be well mannered and polite.You need to make a choice from the sound of it stay with him and get him to change the way he treats you (often easier said than done)and who cares what his parents think you aren`t going to live with them anyway.or you need to maybe call the whole situation quits as much as you may love him.Don`t you think you matter?Sometimes the right thing to do is the hardest thing to do.i hope this helps you out a little.Take care and really sit down and think what you really want in your life.A life like you have at present or perhaps a happier life without misstreatment and missjudgement.

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