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writes: Dear cupid, I have got a problem. There is this girl that I like but she is 4 years younger than me. I'm 19 and she is 16. The next thing is that I am a technician at the school she goes to. So what do I do? Do I tell her how I feel, wait till she finishes school and see what happens? Don't say nothing at all? And if I do tell her, how do I tell her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (24 May 2005):
Okay, One: she is too young there are laws against that.Two: you work in the same school she attends. Another bad idea.Frankly I think you should not go there. It is a bad all around idea, unless you are prepared to keep it to yourself and just be friends until she is of age. There is a huge!! difference between 16 and 19 but there is a smaller difference between 18 and 21.
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reader, trusty +, writes (3 May 2005):
Oh my god! You seriously have to tell her, now or when she leaves, whenever, but you have got to tell her. I guess cause you work at the school you can't have a relationship with her so your best bet is to wait until she leaves school to pursue a relationship with her.Age means nothing at all, it's only 4 years and usually girls find it more attractive that an older guy is interested. I say go for it now or when she leaves, but deffo go for it. good luck xx
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (30 April 2005):
 Striking up a friendship with her initially could be a good idea. You may have already done this but continue to work on it. Ask her about her interests and family life and what she is going to do when she leaves school.I can't see any reason why you shouldn't pursue a relationship once she has left school but you should be aware of the repercussions if you were found to be engaging in a relationship with a pupil such as losing your job and creating difficulty in getting other jobs afterwards.I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2005): Wait til she leaves. If you tell her now you lose your job.
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reader, Kitten-Man +, writes (30 April 2005):
Well, I'm not sure of whether this is legal in this case, but I think you should follow your heart. Work out a bit. Have you seen "desperate housewives"? I think there would be nothing more attractive, than a man with large biceps, there every day at your school. Don't worry about age differences. Try and see if she has a boyfriend first and flirt with her non-verbally. Smile and look into her eyes as she walks past.Good luck!
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