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writes: I love sex with my hubbie, but it is hard for me to cum when he is on top. Him on top is my favorite. Is there something wrong with me? I know there is nothing wrong with him. He is a big size. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): try doggie style. It massages your G spot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2005): Man on top is a great position, but, you can't just lie there and let him do everything. Help yourself out a little! Work your clitoris with one hand and nipples with the other.
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reader, love sik +, writes (6 May 2005):
Hey chick, there is nothing wrong there. I am exactly the same with my fiance. I prefer him on top but I can't cum easily when he is on top. Have you tried foreplay beforehand? I know that it stimulates you a bit more and tends to build you up ready for the sex. When he starts on top just relax all of your muscles, hold him and think to yourself, wow all of this is mine! And then lie back and let him do the rest. Don't concentrate too hard on whether you are going to cum or not because chances are you won't! Because you are not concentrating on love making, good luck
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reader, Dotty +, writes (3 May 2005):
Hey Girl ..Nope, nothing wrong with you at all. I know girls that can only orgasm through oral, so not to worry. What you need to do now is enjoy being on top, guys really like that position anyway so you are already one up on him. Just use him slowly, taking him in a little at a time until you get him into a good spot that works for you, because you said he is large, this may take a few times to know yourself how deep you want him. You are in control with this positionso my words to you sweety is have fun, I know I do. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2005): yeah, I know the feeling ...no I do not have the answer unless he does lose some weight, cos at the end of the day you are both stifled and smothering each other to death. You could try different possistions, well you never know, you may both be closer together emotionally and sexually. wish you the best j
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2005): There is nothing more exciting than variety. They say that it is the spice of life and a change is as good as a rest. A lot of women find it very difficult to climax some have never experienced an orgasm at all. Try out some relaxation and don`t try to have an orgasm as that then takes the relaxation and enjoyment out of making love.The more you see it as a job that you have to do the more stressed you will become and that stress can play a part in not reaching that goal. Some women who have never been able to climax have now got a choice there is a new little gadget that can be used which may help called an orgasmatron. I don`t know whether you have heard of it.Try the relaxation though maybe get in touch with your own body find out how you like to be touched ,kissed and caressed think sexy and you will be sexy then just try different positions there are so many now and you never know you might just find that you can reach your targetjust by that method alone.Before talking to your doctor about the little orgasmatron gadget though try the other things first and if all else fails talk to your doctor they too are there to help if it turns out to be a medically solveable problem.I hope that i may have been of some help to you.Good luck and don`t try so hard.Don`t forget that the elusive g spot on women can be very elusive and you are not alone there are other women out there with the same problem as you.
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