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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. 2 years ago she stopped giving me oral sex butI give it to her every time we make love. How can I get her give me it return ?
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reader, Daisy +, writes (1 May 2005):
Tell her you really like it when she gives you oral sex. Tell her it makes you feel fantastic. If that doesn't work, just stop giving it to her until she gives it to you, its only fair.If she does give it to you treat her like a goddess after, shes bound to repeat the favour!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (1 May 2005):
 By thrusting her head down there??! Seriously, have you tried talking to her about it? If you have gone two years without oral sex, I would imagine you would have at least hinted about her not doing it! Perhaps she really doesn't like doing it, it may repulse her for some reason that maybe she could explain to you. Excuse me for saying this, but I am assuming you are clean as this can be off putting.As for tit for tat, is that what its about? If you give her oral, she should really give it to you in return? I think in some cases, this shouldn't be but I can see where you are coming from (or not, as this case maybe, sorry!) She should put as much effort into making love as you do, she should want to. Is she happy with your sex life? Is she responsive to you? You perhaps need to ask her if she does enjoy it and say to her that you like to pleasure her and that you like to feel pleasure in return.Investigate the reasons why she has stopped giving you oral sex and only then can you work out what to do next.I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2005): Hello there.Have you tried asking her why she no longer wants to give you oral sex?She may have a good reason.Then again she may not but i will just tell you that you should never try to force anyone to do anything they do not wish to do.This will just cause a lot of resentment. I hope this will be of help to you.Good luck.And remember try not to make a big issue out of it. ok.
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