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writes: I am with my new boyfriend which I have been with for 10 months. He came out of a five-year relationship and he still talks to his ex. He says that there is nothing going on, but yet he keeps things from me like when he borrows money off her. Anyway last week he went to concert with her and her dad. He said that her dad is taking him for his birthday and she happened to be there. I trust him but I don't think that it is right and I still feel like he has feelings for her. He always reassures me but I still have this gut feeling, and it is telling me that he does. My question to you is am I wrong for feeling like this or am I being too possessive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2005): If I were you I would be cautious. My ex, whom I have a son with, has recently got engaged but he has not stopped sleeping with me since the day we split and we split when I was 8 weeks pregnant. Over a year and a half ago, he calls me for sex. When I refuse he won't leave me alone and it seems that the contact your fella has with his ex is a bit much. See if the ex is not interested in getting back with your fella but still likes sex with him like in my situation then it's pretty easy for your fella and his ex to keep it from you, because my fellas fiance hasnt got a clue. Depends also on reason they split. I split with my fella only cos we didnt get on not because we stopped fancying each other. So if this is the same reason they split then I would say yep, someat is defo going on. Best to follow him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2005): Hello there.To be honest with you yes he probably does still have feelings for her after all they were together for 5 years and no one can just switch feelings on and off like a light switch.What you need to remember is that he is with you now even though they are still friends i am friends with some of my ex`s but it doesn`t mean i am seeing them behind my boyfriends back.I f you trust him then that is good.Afterall a relationship is partly based on trust. i hope this is a little help for you.Good luck to you both.
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