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He travels a lot and could be getting up to no good. I'm having trouble trusting him, too...

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Question - (27 April 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

I have been with my boyfriend eighteen months. He is a business man and tends to travel a lot.

Just recently he got a new phone and he gave me his old one which had messages on, which had proven he had cheated on me while he was away. I confronted him and he admitted he had kissed a girl in Taiwan and nothing else happened. One month later he proposed. I agreed because I love him so much and he promised he would never do anything to threaten our relationship again.

Each time he goes away I don't say anything to him but I am riddled with pain thinking he could be getting up to no good. I do love him, so shall I try to forget about this and the trust will come back gradually or am I wasting my time because if he loved me he would not have done it in the first place?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007):

hi you should visit this website, www.intuitiondavice.co.uk they helped me find the truth! they can help you too. goodluck, emma.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006):

Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he is already doing this so early in your relationship, why wouldn't he do it after you've been married five, ten, fifteen years and things aren't as exciting as when they are new. Run!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2005):

Ohh forgive him; all he did was kiss her. But in the real side you are the only one that really would know if he would cheat. Now if you don't want to face it cause you love him, that's a diffrent story.

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A reader, doomed_in_mb +, writes (27 April 2005):

In my mind, cheating is the worst pain in the world. So if he really loved you, he would have never done that to you. If he will admit to kissing a girl, speaking from experience, he has done a lot more than that.

P.S. Scott Peterson was a "travelling businessman" too.

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