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writes: My partner and I have been together for four years, and have a son. We have been having some problems, and recently managed to discuss things properly for the first time.We agreed we both needed to make some changes. However, it seems like it's me that makes all the changes! And a lot of the things, I don't know - Like I go to bed too late at night, but I don't need as much sleep as I need to. Our sex life isn't great at the moment, but we are working on it, I am trying to make all the changes my partner wants, but still can't bring myself to see why I need to make them. Am I wrong to just blindly accept it? I love my partner and don't want to lose her, but I'm worried that she'll leave me anyway in the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2005): It sounds like you need to talk to her again and tell her how you are feeling before the resentment starts eating you up inside. If it was something that you both agreed to work on together as a couple then it is something that you should both be working on as a couple. Perhaps she has forgotten her agreement to this and just needs you to remind her. A relationship is better if both parties work their problem areas through together. After all, they are both in the situation. Just ask her again to help you to work it out and let her know how important it is to you because you don`t want to lose her just because you feel like you are doing all the giving and not getting anything back for your efforts.If you let her know then she has the chance to do something because she can`t read your mind. If she is unaware that the problem exists how can she alter it? I hope this has been of help to you.
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