She doesn't even care...
Q. Uhm Hi. I'm only 16 years old, going on 17 and my girlfriend is the same age as me, though 8 months younger. I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 17 months. Things were really good when we started going out: she was really nice to me, she ...
A. 8 November 2010: What you have just explained boils down to something like this -
I give 100% to her.
She give me nothing.
Can you please help?
You say you "love" her. We dont love people narrowly speaking. We love what they do, who they are, their acti... (read in full...)
Controlling b/f texts me 200 times a day?
Q. Hi, and thanks for reading my post. I've always been a happy person, smiling,laughing enjoying my life lately I'm tired, headaches, a tad down. I'm sure its because of my turbulent relationship. It started like a dream come true. He was charming,...
A. 8 November 2010: 200 texts a day? I can only imagine what an amazing job he must have.
Guy is a loser. All the signs are there. Leave or become what he is.... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact him or is there a reason he hasn't gotten back to me?
Q. So me and this guy went out a bunch at the end of this summer, he bought me dinner once or twice, we did some real fun stuff together. Then september rolled around and we're both at different unis, but in seprember the calls and txts were still ...
A. 8 November 2010: What xanthic said. Its most likely hes not interested. Give it one more shot.... (read in full...)
Is he giving me a hidden message/hint or is what he's saying legitimate?
Q. Been seeing a married man for the past 10 mths. He has broken up with me three times (he rekindles us each time after a few weeks). He’s stuck on the theory that it’s unfair and selfish of him to expect me to wait around for him when he’s home with ...
A. 8 November 2010: "Been seeing a married man for the past 10 mths." After I read this first sentence I stopped reading. What possible good do you think can come from this? Whatever hardship you endure from this is completely self-inflicted. How otherwise ration... (read in full...)
How late is too late to lose your virginity?
Q. I'm 23 and was reading an article about age on losing virginity http://abcnews.go.com/Health/Sex/story?id=3932047 and page=1 I was late when it came to dating and I nearly lost it when I was 20. But everyone thinks if you haven't had sex wh...
A. 6 November 2010: I have never heard a women expressing regret about waiting for the right time/person. I have heard countless stories of the opposite.... (read in full...)
Its the drugs or me!
Q. I'm 20 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and few months. I feel like my boyfriend is choosing drugs over me. I've asked him to stop but every single morning he wakes up and smokes it. He isn't at work atm either so he's just at home ...
A. 5 November 2010: Straight to the point -
He is likely a loser. Chosing your mate is the single most important decision in your life. There are plenty of good ones out there - no need to settle for a dope fiend. Hitch your star to a loser and you are looking ... (read in full...)
Watery bath???
Q. What does it do if you inject water in your ass? Can it be harmful?...
A. 4 November 2010: Isnt that called an enema?... (read in full...)
I snooped through my husband's phone and now he is distant!
Q. A fleeting moment of insecurity had me snoop through my husband's phone while he was in the shower. Now he is distant. What's my next move? I'm 95% of the time very confident but I get these fleeting moments of insecurity from time to time. I ...
A. 4 November 2010: You just told him in no uncertain terms that you do not trust him. This is a HUGE problem, at least with me - I have left relationships because of it. You need to work on your trust issues b4 you move forward.... (read in full...)
Ladies and Men. How important is love to you...and is it worth fighting for?
Q. Ladies and men...have you ever fought for the one you loved even if they were in another relationship? If so, how did it turn out? I ask because I am currently in that situation. Some may think I am crazy, but would you really let the one you ...
A. 3 November 2010: Hate to put it this way, but to me, relationships are a dime a dozen. Ive had many in my life and I dont look back on a single one with regret that I wasnt there anymore. IMO, running a business and/or making money is tough. Relationships are ... (read in full...)
We had sex and now he threatens to tell my husband if I don't do what he wants!!! Help!
Q. Long story short, I met a guy and we ended up having sex. I'm married. Now he threatens to tell my husband if I don't do what he wants, when he wants. How do I get out of this? Please help me....
A. 3 November 2010: Take responsibility for your actions and tell your husband.... (read in full...)
Is there really such a thing as fate?
Q. do you think fate is real? Like If two people love eachother do you think fate will bring them back together after they stop talking...
A. 3 November 2010: From ages 13-19, there is no such thing as fate........ (read in full...)
I'm single, 20 and want a baby
Q. i want a baby but am single i am 20 yrs old al my friends have babies and i have always wanted to be a parent young from a very young age what should i do this is gettin me realy down ? ...
A. 3 November 2010: I am depressed because I have to support other peoples childern with my taxes because they cannot do it themselves.
What shall I do?... (read in full...)
I just lost the love of my life... how do I get over him?
Q. I just lost the love of my life I'm so sad. I can't believe he said we should go our own way. I feel dead, my heart is broken. I really love him. How do I get over him? ...
A. 31 October 2010: At your age, it seems like its the end of the world - it not. I had at least 5 "love of my lifes." I dont think about any of them now, and am unbelievably happy that I didnt end up with any of them.... (read in full...)
I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex
Q. I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought ...
A. 31 October 2010: Best "revenge" ever know to humanity is happieness, success, and clean living.... (read in full...)
Why do men think of women as slaves?
Q. why do men think of women as slaves?...
A. 29 October 2010: Please read what Odds wrote below....... (read in full...)
In the heat of the argument I told him he has a tiny penis! I know I have screwed up, so how do I fix this?
Q. Ok so ive been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but hes not small hes like 6.5 in. Ive been told ...
A. 27 October 2010: Ok - say during the heat of the moment he told you that he was still deeply in love with he ex-girlfriend, and deep inside he knew he would always love her and will never ever be able to love another woman like that.
What would you suggest ... (read in full...)
How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?
Q. How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...
A. 27 October 2010: Women need to stop with this porn/porn star thing. I'll let you in on a secret - there is no man I know that would ever want a porn star for anything other than a short term purely sexual fling. There would be zero emotional investment, and the ... (read in full...)
Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted
Q. Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...
A. 27 October 2010: You made your bed, now you have to lie in it.... (read in full...)
Its hard enough being a single mother to one, I don't know if I can do it with two!
Q. okay so im 20 years old and i already have an 1yr old daughter... i just found out today that i am pregnant again ..n the guy that i was with already has a little girl with a another woman n doesnt see her at all he drinks alot n likes to go to the ...
A. 27 October 2010: One sentence -
Birth control is your friend........ (read in full...)
I found naughty texts do I confront her?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over 3 months. My friends don't think she is trustworthy. The other day I was going through her phone and I noticed a text from a guy named John. I clicked on it and it said thing like I want you so b...
A. 26 October 2010: From a third party perspective, I cant help but to read these kind of statements to translate to something like - "You know, my car was stolen last week. A few days later, I saw a very similar car parked in my neighbors driveway, who buy the way ... (read in full...)
I am white and married a black, hubby doesn't see how mean many of his race are to me!
Q. i have been married to a black man for 20 years. my problem...well...i am not black and when we go places together i always get the snobby,rolling eyes and staring hard at by black women. some who goes as far as trying to flirt with my husband ...
A. 26 October 2010: I am a white nordic man and I am dating a Colombian women. You'd be amazed at how poorly white women treat her when they find we are dating. I'll tell you the same thing I tell her - they are only acting that way bc they are insecure and ... (read in full...)
By accepting my wifes affair am I just prolonging the inevitable?
Q. Hi , i have been married for 12 years but this year i found out that my wife was having an affair . We are trying to work things out but she still wants to keep seeing the other man . I am not happy about this and at the moment it has been left that ...
A. 26 October 2010: If this was me I would be gone in a NY minute. Lifes too short and love is too precious to waste on anyone underserving, as this woman surely appears to be.... (read in full...)
I like a 40 y/o man and I am 17...what are the chances?
Q. I met a man in a chat room on July of this year. We didn't talk much in pm but when we did, I was mostly seeking his advice on something. I always showed a certain interest in the cat room because I liked his personality. Not once had I seen his ...
A. 26 October 2010: "I met a man in a chat room on July of this year"
Honestly, does anyone need more information than this sentence?... (read in full...)
How do we tell our parents we want to be adult porn stars?
Q. I am 18 years old and I sexually active athletic , and a model , I have been dating my girlfriend Alex for 3 years she is a model too , as well we plan to be together forever as well we have a desire to be adult film stars how do we go about telling ...
A. 26 October 2010: Something like -
"Mom, Dad. We are at the age when we are to foolish not to make an irreversible bad decision, so we hope you can support us...."... (read in full...)
Was losing your virginity as you expected it to be?
Q. Was losing your Virginity as you expected it to be and would you change your mind if you could go back?...
A. 26 October 2010: I have never ever heard a woman say - "I wish I lost it earlier to someone who didnt matter so much." I have heard countless say the opposite. Food for though for those ladies thinking about it........ (read in full...)
Is it normal for shorter girls to feel this way?
Q. I'm just under 5 foot, 18 years old and a bit curvier... I've never had a boyfriend despite being quite outgoing and flirty. I'm not desperate just concerned that because of my height guys just look at me as a cute little sister or a friend. Don't ...
A. 22 October 2010: Im 6ft and 188lbs. My gf is 5ft and 100lbs. Things couldnt be better..... ... (read in full...)
Window for the "Previous Sexual Partners" talk has passed... what do I do?
Q. Hello World, I had sex with my girlfriend on our first official date, and now I'm stuck in between a rock and a hard place with finding out her previous sexual history. I was a virgin when I slept with her (and was blind-sided by the whole experi...
A. 28 September 2010: All you need to do it look around on this board and see how many people post things to the effect of "Found this about my husband/wife after XX years of marriage. What shall I do?"
There is no "window" for this. If you need to know about he... (read in full...)
Why do family members and relatives interrogate me just because I don't want kids?
Q. Hi everyone. I've noticed that when someone does not want to have kids, everyone interrogates them. They demand answers. But when someone does want to have kids, no-one interrogates them! How does that work? It sounds like discrimination to me...
A. 28 September 2010: One of the more inappropriate questions right there with "when are you getting married," yet many feel no shame in asking it.
I have a sister-in-law who continued to ask me when I was getting married, and she knew it bothered me. I finally ... (read in full...)
Isn't that what college is for? To experiment and have fun?
Q. I'm 19 and this is my second year in college but my first year AWAY at school. I'm really starting to enjoy it, but I'm kind of worried of how I'm putting myself out there. I've been here for about 5 weeks now and have had sex with two guys already. ...
A. 27 September 2010: You are of course entitled to do what you wish consentually. That said, dont be the least big surprised when "The Guy" comes along that he may have a big problem with your past......... (read in full...)
I found hidden in the closet sex video with wife and her boyfriends...
Q. Please help! So my wife told me I needed to do more around the house. Help her clean mostly. I had never really done it and I felt I should help...wish I never had. I started cleaning out our bedroom. Under the bed, behind dressers, etc......
A. 27 September 2010: If this was such a "bad" experience, then why did she 1) videotape it, and 2) keep said videotapes for years. I have always said - never listen to what people SAY, watch what they DO.....
IMO she clearly misrespresented to you who she was befo... (read in full...)
I wish he could be more jealous
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really wish my bf was more possessive. Not in the creepy "he needs help"-sort of way, but a balanced way. I don't think he's ever jealous although when my friends text me a lot when with him, he jokes that it's my man on the ...
A. 27 September 2010: Be careful what you wish for.....
I had a women who would use every excuse to make me jealous. I told her to stop and I warned her I would leave if she didnt. She didnt.....I left....... (read in full...)
We are both 14, had a miscarriage. Should we try again to have a baby?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both 14 and are madly in love. weve been together for about a year now and had protected sex a few months ago. she ended up having a miscarriage and that made us both completely sad. :( We love eachother alot and wanna have ...
A. 31 August 2010: Before you decide to have a child, please prove to me that you are capable of having one. Specifically, please outline all future costs, projected income, and living arrangements going forward for at least the next ten years......... (read in full...)
Retroactive jealousy regarding my wife! How do I deal with it?
Q. Hi, I need to ask you all about my wife. She has a very sexually chequered past that haunts me, but to be honest, at other times turns me on too. What I need to know is how to deal with it and get over it. She is a beautiful woman, 30yrs old ...
A. 31 August 2010: Read what anon said two post below. This very thing effects me, and I have found its a fight not worth fighting. It will NEVER fully go away, and you will have to live with it. You will spend the rest of your days trying to change something very ... (read in full...)
What do guys my age think of young ladies like me???
Q. I am a 23yr old virgin. Whenever I go out men are always complimenting me..asking if Im a model.. and trying to get my number. I am tall, i work out, eat healthy, am very stylish/classy, and I love God. I live with my dad, grandma, and my dog. I ...
A. 31 August 2010: You are a gem of gems, and a guy will be very lucky to get you.... (read in full...)
Why do I always go for the older man?
Q. I feel troubled. I can't seem to get attracted to men my own age or near it. I actually feel repulsed sometimes when they try and flirt with me. I try and feel something, anything but no go. I'd never go for someone twice my age or anything, but for ...
A. 18 August 2010: Im 42, my gf is 34. Things couldnt be better........ (read in full...)
Is it a one night stand or rape?
Q. I've been wondering for a long time whether what I experienced was just a one night stand or rape. A while ago I went to visit a friend of mine at school. We went out, and I drank way too much. I remember I was flirting with this friend of hers most ...
A. 18 August 2010: Sooooo.....you want to claim rape for a situation that you have effectively no recollection of.......... (read in full...)
Women, what kind of porn do you like?
Q. straight women, what kind of porn do u like?...
A. 18 August 2010: Asking women what kind of porn do you like is like asking the guys from "The Deadliest Catch" how many times the watched Steel Magnolias......... (read in full...)
Trying for a baby at 15. Could I be pregnant from these symptoms?
Q. i am 15 and i have been with my 16year old boyfriend for a year and 1month and we are trying for a baby, and i am nearly 2weeks late for my period and i have done 3 test and yet all neg and i am really scerd, i dont want to tell my mum and friends ...
A. 18 August 2010: And Im sure you and your bf have completely thought out the emotional and financial committment a child will be.....right?... (read in full...)
I agreed to help her financially, but she'll leave me if I stop.
Q. Hi I have met a girl online and we chat for about 3 weeks and she came to find me in my country. We met up and hit it quite well and she asked me to be her boyfriend which I agreed that we should try out. During this period of time, she told...
A. 18 August 2010: If you give her one more cent you are out of your mind and will look back on it with serious regret.... (read in full...)
Marriage - why should any man bother?
Q. Women… why should any guy propose marriage? Full disclosure: I have never been married, but several family members and friends have been hurt by divorce, and I know of only a handful of happy marriages over one year old. My feelings for the...
A. 18 August 2010: Great post. I am 42, and have never been married for many of the reasons you cite.
I also agree with the conjecture about American women. To me, it appears that the 60s and 70s ruined the American woman. American women now want it both ways - t... (read in full...)
I attacked my Husband!!
Q. Today I got into an argument with my husband. The row started getting worse and then i pushed him and slapped him in the face. I also scratched him when he pushed me back. I've done this a few years ago and thought I'm over my 'anger' feelings...
A. 17 August 2010: Your biggest problems is your last sentence. You are negative because you are chosing to be. It is effecting you're entire life apparently. You can just as easily be positive if you choose to be. Its all up to you........ (read in full...)
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