Why the double standard?
Q. Why do guys become 'the man', and girls become 'the slut' after sex too soon? i slept with a guy that chased me like crazy and yeah I know...I shouldnt have. if he stopped contact because he thought I was easy, then how is this not a double ...
A. 12 July 2010: Has absolutely nothing to do with the "media" or anything like that. It is simply because we are a product of our evolution. Its all based on the drive to procreate. Nothing more, nothing less.... (read in full...)
Is my sex life normal at my age?
Q. I am over 60 and still have sexual intimacy on average once a week. Question; I prefer to 'finish off' outside her body is this normal and is once a week at my age normal? How much longer can i expect to be able to 'step up to the plate'?...
A. 9 July 2010: Im 42, been with my 34 yr old gf for almost three years now. We have sex almost every night. Matter of fact, beent thinking about tonights romp already today...... : )
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I really don't know if I want the truth because then our relationship has been built on decite and lies.
Q. I have been married for a long time and I believe we love each other. My wife claims she only had one sexual relationship before me but it was multiple times. I had to learn this from friends before I confronted her and she admitted it to be true. I ...
A. 9 July 2010: "Please speak for yourself.. before I came on this website I never met a single man who was interested in his partners sexual past... "
What you really mean is - I never met a single man WHO ADMITTED TO ME that he is interested in his partners... (read in full...)
Is there REALLY an age limit on love???
Q. Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...
A. 8 July 2010: "I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am"
Sorry - but that statment actually made me LOL. Of all the things you wrote, nothing convinced me you are a typical teenager more than that........ (read in full...)
I really don't know if I want the truth because then our relationship has been built on decite and lies.
Q. I have been married for a long time and I believe we love each other. My wife claims she only had one sexual relationship before me but it was multiple times. I had to learn this from friends before I confronted her and she admitted it to be true. I ...
A. 8 July 2010: Wow - how many threads have I now read "my wife of X years just told me that she lied to me about the #....."
People (ie mainly women) will say its none of your business, the past is the past, etc. Nothing could be further from the truth for many... (read in full...)
How much does size matter to women?
Q. I have an ordinary size dick and I spoke to a Doctor about it once. He said that there wasn't really anything that can be done about it. His exact words were... "you are what you are and there's nothing we can do to change that." I want an hone...
A. 8 July 2010: Sorry - something doesnt sound right. You go to talk to a doctor about your "average" size penis, but then say its all about "inner beauty?"
If its all about inner beauty - why would you even bother to ask a doctor about your willy? ... (read in full...)
At what age do you figure you will want to be married at and why?
Q. Hey Guys: Just for curiosity's sake, at what age do you figure you will want to be married at and why? And for those of you married already, at what age did you tie the not? What made you want to get married and was it more about the person or about ...
A. 8 July 2010: This is what I will tell you - there is no single decision that will have a larger impact on your life than who you marry. Who you chose is the most important decision you will ever make by a country mile.
With this in mind, I find it surprisi... (read in full...)
Do all men fantasize of other women than their girlfriend?
Q. Do all men fanatisize of women other than their girlfriends while masturbating all of the time? Is this a red flag? Does it mean they'd probably cheat too? Is it ok to do this?...
A. 8 July 2010: For those who believe that a man even thinking sexually about another woman is cheating and grounds for leaving - I have a spoiler for you - you are going to be very lonely in this life.
There is NO man that does not "think" of other woman at... (read in full...)
I couldn't help probe about her sexual past, but I wish she wouldn't have been so honest!!!
Q. Ok here's my problem. My gf and I have been dating for a little over a year now, at the begining of the relationship I asked the inevitable question " how many men have you slept with"?. She asked me to answer the question first, I told her 80 women ...
A. 8 July 2010: I've been in your shoes before. I moved on - numbers like that just arent for me and I realize it. Those decisions have led me to someone where I dont need to worry about her past. There is no "dealing with it," no images in my head, and carrying ... (read in full...)
Keep chasing... or what???
Q. My ex and I broke up half a year ago, a lot of crap went down in example, I asked her to go to prom with me she needed to think about it. I thought I was getting played and stuff so I said screw it, I told this girl who wanted to go with me sure ...
A. 6 July 2010: You already have your answer, and have had it for some time now.
Move on. ... (read in full...)
We are of Different Races, Should I Pursue This Relationship??
Q. I met this girl, Shirley, almost a year ago when we both started working at Salvation Army on the same day. We were quiet at first, but after I made conversation with her, we learned to work well together, and we became friends. We'd talk to each ...
A. 5 July 2010: My gf is Colombian (born there.) My ancestry is highly northern european. We are head over heals for each other, and the sex is mind blowing and frequent. I have dated women within my own race, especially during my younger years. Once I started ... (read in full...)
Should your boyfriend think you are pretty and sexy?
Q. Im not really sure if im being overly sensitive or what but i dont like the image my boyfriend has of me,we been together now almost 2 years, he is always saying he loves me cause pretty girls are bitches. Now thats basically telling me he doesnt ...
A. 2 July 2010: I think my gf is smoking hot and also not a bitch, and we've been together for some time.
I always think whenever we're out - "Im with the prettiest girl in the place!" I often say it out loud to her....... (read in full...)
Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask?
Q. Another poll for you ladies: Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask? If not, how far off are you? A) Yes, I tell them my real number if they ask B) I tell them my number of "real" boyfriends or relationships, bu...
A. 1 July 2010: Wow - ignorance is bliss?
Id rather know. I happen to believe that a persons past is an incredibly good indicator of how they will behave in the future. Notice I didnt say "perfect" indicator, but w/o question the best indicator I know.
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Tortured with the thought of my wife's sexual past
Q. I am dealing with the common problem of having married a woman who had a sordid (my opinion) past. By age 24 she had over 35 sexual partners varying from a 2 year relationship to blow jobs in a club parking lot with strangers. I am conservative by ...
A. 1 July 2010: This is exactly why you need to know these things BEFORE marriage.
Some guys can handle a sordid past. Some cant. I am most definitely the latter, and I accept that. I have moved on from many a women when I found out they were say morally ... (read in full...)
My husband chooses porn over sex!
Q. i am 24 years old and i've been with my husband for nearly 3 years. when we met i knew he liked porn, but it wasnt a problem for me at that time because we were having sex. but soon i became pregnant and the sex stopped. Even long after having my ...
A. 30 June 2010: Hes prob not cheating, at least not based on this evidence.
Porn is a strong short-term reward feedback system, as is alcohol and drugs. This is why it can be an addiction, which it sounds like he has. Just google "porn addiction" and you will... (read in full...)
My girl's sexual tally is less than mine but I am still bothered by it
Q. I recently discovered that at my girfriend at the age of 23 has had 22 sexual partners including me. Let's forgo the truth part as I believe her but what's bothering me is the number. I didn't think I'd be bothered but when she counted up and told ...
A. 23 June 2010: I have been bothered before by a GFs sexual past before, and I also used to think it was me. I posted on sites like this and have been told to "grow up" and I was "immature." Also was the ubiquitous "how about you" responses.
After some sessions... (read in full...)
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