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12 October 2011: While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...
Is Pornography cheating?
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1 May 2011: The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
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Pill? Or no pill?
Q. ive put on a little weight over the last couple of years, and my boyfriend has suggested i come off the pill. its always been a good choice to go on it, the sex feels better for both of us and its safer than using condoms. altho ive tried a few ...
A. 14 September 2009: Why not try a copper IUD? First off, there are no hormones so there can't be weight gain or mood swings. Secondly, it is effective for 10 years so it's by far the cheapest. It's also more effective than the pill because it's constant, and you can't ... (read in full...)
Am I being too sensitive?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months and this is by far the best relationship I have ever had (and that includes two failed marriages). We are very much in love. The problem is she has gone away for a skiing holiday with her girlfriends for a ...
A. 9 September 2009: I'm MADLY in love with my boyfriend and love nothing more than being with him. I could spend 24/7 with him and be happy. I would almost always choose to spend time with him over my friends. Do I? No, I do not. I take girls' nights where boyfriends ... (read in full...)
Do all guys want their girlfriends to be "one of the guys"?
Q. Do all guys want their gf's to be 'one of the guys'? By this, I mean do guys want their gfs to behave and act like their male friends? Do they want their gfs to get completely drunk off their face with all their friends? Do they want their gf's to ...
A. 6 September 2009: Well everyone has different tastes, but in general no, I'd say they don't. They want a girl who can roll with it when they (the guys) act like that, but I don't think they'd want a girl who is exactly like their guy friends. I mean, you love your ... (read in full...)
How much does love matter in a relationship?
Q. How much does love matter in a relationship? Can you be happy with someone who gives you everything you could want but you are not in love with them. By that I mean, a family, a home, money, a great social life and their love. Long term is t...
A. 22 August 2009: I was actually JUST reading an article about this about how women search for movie fireworks but some of the best marriages actually come from relationships like this, apparently. Now whether you can be happy with that or not is really up to you. ... (read in full...)
Do all male djs cheat on their girls?
Q. sounds weird.i've Just met a guy hes 19same as me of the net.. but hes a dj and well known in his area cuz he's really successful for his age.we have unlimted clals to eachother he spends most his spare time talking to me after our first nigh...
A. 22 August 2009: No of course not. You can't judge someone by their profession like that (unless of course he's a male prostitute). He's obviously into you, you're just going to have to trust him. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend to stop having anal sex
Q. my bf said he wanted to try anal sex with a man....it was his fantasy. I said he could try it. now, he says he wants to see the guy twice a month as he needs anal sex. he says I won't be replaced ever but if I want him to stop, tell him now and he ...
A. 22 August 2009: You've basically just given him permission to cheat. It really doesn't matter what gender, he's started having sex with someone else. It should bother you regardless of gender! It's not like you're allowed one of each. Right now he has his woman ... (read in full...)
What can I do to not get worked up over little things that he does?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months..I love him a lot and he helps me through everything. He treats me well and lets me do everything I want to do. Just he annoys me and since I have really bad aniexty it drives me nuts like ...
A. 21 August 2009: I find that generally when you are truly in love with the person the little things won't get to you. There's nothing you can do about the way you feel. I too am an "anxious" person and tend to get very working up about EVERYTHING, but now that I'm ... (read in full...)
Does this relationship have a chance to last forever?
Q. I am a 31 year old mother of 3 young children. I met a 23 year old single guy at my work and started dating him 6 months ago even though I am still married. I was having issues with my marriage, I'm just not in love with my husband anymore, who by ...
A. 21 August 2009: It's always possible, though odds are against it. I'd say for now, enjoy it, go with it, and just see what happens. There's no way of knowing for sure unless you try. Usually college, guy, and woman with children don't go well together. However, ... (read in full...)
Was this a miscarriage?
Q. Near enough last year, my boyfriend and I were messing around and his penis (which was wet from pre ejaculation) touched the inside tip of my vagina for like, 2 seconds; 2 months ago in October. Before then, my periods were pretty regular arriving...
A. 21 August 2009: Probably not, no. You would have skipped the previous two periods. Plus, the likelihood that you would be pregnant from that kind of contact is EXCEPTIONALLY low. So low that you'd be more likely to be struck by lighting while inside. Plus, it was ... (read in full...)
He is always saying other girls are cute and hot!
Q. he says he loves me but he will say that other girls are hot and cute when he posts a picture of someone famous he will say shes cute or hot and he does skype with another girl and and he says that im all he wants but idk it makes me feel bad bout ...
A. 21 August 2009: I disagree with SFL below. He should not be pointing out to you other cute and hot girls! Men can sometimes be thoughtless like that. We don't need to know who it is they're checking out. Yes, we see them, thanks, but we don't need to know that you ... (read in full...)
How do I get her comfortable receiving oral sex?
Q. my gf is not comfortable with receiving oral sex. how do i get her to become comfortable with it?...
A. 21 August 2009: You need to not push her into it first off. If she feels forced into it she will not enjoy it and will be self-conscious the whole time. A sure-fire way to never go down on her again. What you need to do is make sure she knows how much you want to ... (read in full...)
He keeps asking me out, I'm not attracted to him, but I don't like hurting his feelings!
Q. I am on an internet dating site. There is a guy who has emailed me about 30 times. He has asked me out on several occasions, i have almost run out of excuses for not accepting. I am not attracted to him but he seems to be obsessed by me. Should i...
A. 21 August 2009: You need to flat out just tell him you are not interested. This goes beyond normal attraction to someone, he is clearly an obsessive type! Like the other person said, if you actually accepted, he might actually resort to stalking or simply become ... (read in full...)
Ladies, how much does your man spend on you each month?
Q. Ladies, how much does your boyfriend/fiance/husband generally spend on you each month? I feel like my fiance spends way too much money on me and I feel really guilty. Any advice or input is appreciated =)...
A. 21 August 2009: Not factoring in paying for each other's meals since it evens out pretty well, I'd say no more than $10 a month on sweet nothings and I don't feel neglected. I don't think he'd spend it if he didn't have it and didn't think you were a "worthwhile ... (read in full...)
What do I do when my daughters are being sexually molested!
Q. i dont know what to do when a father is sexually molesting my two daughters. [Moderator note: more information would be helpful for the aunts to give advice.]...
A. 21 August 2009: I encourage you to seek help from the nearest women's shelter. They can offer you all a safe place to stay and guidance about where to go from here.... (read in full...)
Should I confront him and ask why he cut contact?
Q. This guy and I went in several dates together. We go to the same school. we are both in college. We kissed twice and did not have sex. Everything was fine until he just completely stopped calling me or texting me. I tried to text him once only, he ...
A. 21 August 2009: I've actually been in a similar situation. I started dating a guy I was head over heels for, and we dated for about 3 weeks. One day, he just sort of disappeared from my life without notice. I tried contacting him a little, but it was very clear ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher
Q. Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...
A. 21 August 2009: Almost everyone feels this way about a teacher at one point or another. I'm not saying it's "just a stupid crush" I don't think there is such a thing as crushes can be incredibly powerful and consuming, especially if you think he likes you back. But ... (read in full...)
Why does he stare me in the eyes?
Q. when im with my boyfriend alone, he would lay down with his head in my lap and stare at me in the eyes. how does he feel when he does this and why does he do it?...
A. 20 August 2009: Because he either loves you, likes you, or finds you beautiful and wants to gaze into your eyes. The lap thing is just a nice way to cuddle sometimes. This is a good thing, it's very sweet.... (read in full...)
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