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anonymous
writes:okay so before i ask my question i want to state that i am not a virgin. ive had sex plenty of times, ive been fingered plenty of times exc. okay so last week my boy friend was stimulating me manualy. about twenty minutes after he was through i noticed blood on his hand. at first i thought he cut himself but then we relized it came from me. i went to the bathroom and saw blood in my underware. i was concerned but when i wiped there was nothing. so we went on and thought nothing of it. well last night he was fingering me again and i relized it hurt so i told him to stop. sure enough blood was on his hand. it felt like he cut me. could it be that he is cutting me with his finger nails? this has never happened before and i was at the docter only a month ago and evreything was fine. i dont bleed during sex. is something wrond with me? has this happened to anyone else? should i be worried? thanks.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 p.s. I meant 'absolutely' it's happened to someone else - not 'absolutely' you should be worried!!!
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reader, natasia +, writes (24 May 2008):
Absolutely. It's totally possible, and has happened to me not once. I think it's also to do with the position of your cervix, and the time of the month. At certain times the cells on the cervix are more sensitive/liable to bleed. And if you're pregnant - boy - I had it that even the gentlest sex set those cervical cells off!! You might also have a little tiny like abrasion on the cervix (can't remember what it's called now, but has a special name) - almost like a little pimple - and that will bleed very easily. And/or his fingers are grazing the side of your vagina.
If it helps: I had a boyfriend with whom I would say 3 out of 10 times of having sex I saw a bit of blood. But with my current partner of one year, that never ever happened. I think it's all to do with where they 'put' themselves, and the way your cervix is feeling! But hey, fingernails, yes, very good chance it's just that.\
Go to the doc anyhow and let him/her have a quick look at your cervix. I'm sure it's fine, though : )
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