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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as...

Should I lose my virginity to my sisters boyfriend with her blessing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I have a complicated situation where my sister and her boyfriend are completely open to open relationships where they'll see other people/have sex with them, but will be dating each other as each other's main partners. I'm a virgin and hadn't h...

We had sex and he told everyone! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Im 15 and about a month ago i had sex (i was a virgen) with my 17yr old bf bc i thought i loved him. He promised me tht no 1 would know no matter what but less than a week later he broke up with me bc he didnt want attachments bc hes goin to the ...

I'm a virgin and I need sex tips! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I need help. im a virgin and im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im just scared that im going to be rubbish because ive never done it before. he's had sex a few times, what if im awful at giving a BJ? please give me any advice as to what to ...

I confessed my sexuality to her and haven't heard from her since, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - ok. im 17 year old female virgin, i have been questioning my sexuality from a young age, about 11. i dont want to have these thoughts but i dont think anyone ever does really do they? i have been kinda tryin to tell my friend for the past 6 months ...

Should I really be doing this or am I getting a little ahead of myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm 14 years old, and just recently, I've made plans with this guy, a friend, who I've known for years, to lose my virginity...and I know a lot of people might say I'm too young, but I know what I want.. my thing is, I have a fear of ...

So I fancy this boy who messed me around and ended up playing me, then he lost his virginity to some other girl, then we got back together, then he told me he was bored with me, now he wants to have sex with me. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - okay heres my story.. i fancied this boy for a while since back in march 2010, i was absolutely obsessed with him.. (im 14 and hes 15) he messed me around abit and ended up playing me, luckily all i did was kiss him.. about 6 months later we ...

His parents believe in no sex before marriage!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - hi, recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend! We've been going out for about 6 months and we felt we were ready. He and i were virgins at the time. But a few days after i found out from a friend that his mum and dad are very religious people and ...

Why did he want to know if I was a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy who is in the same program as me in my university He is really nice and always gives me advice. I like him and I think he likes me too, because he tells me why a nice girl like me doesn't have a boyfriend. we text each other ...

Can't stop looking at porn and masturbating. Is this healthy for a 14-year-old girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl. I recently looked up porn and started to masturbate. I know I'm young but since the first time I can't stop. I feel bad or dirty after. I do but i can't stop... Is this healthy?? Does it mean I'm a sex addict?? Even if...

At 16, should I have already started having relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - i am a 16 year old guy and i have never had any type of relationship with a girl. i haven't even kissed one and most of my friends have already, well you know. is this normal or should i hurry it up?...

24 and never had a girlfriend. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - I can't find a girl, no matter what I do. I can't find anyone to even go out on a date with me. It's gone beyond even trying to find "that special someone" or "the one", I'm just trying to find any girl who will go out with me. Every girl I ask out ...

Do I want to lose my virginity to this girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Here's the dilemma: I've been seeing a girl, roughly same age (23/24) for a few months now. I'm a virgin and recently found out she isn't. I'm afraid this will make her lose interest in me and also it makes me wonder if I really want to lose my ...

Is my Fetish too Weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - this may seem weird but i'm 20 and a virgin. When i masturbate i like to wear girls panties. Is this a really weird thing to do? should i be really embarrased by this and learn to stop doing it?...

How do I tell him I'm not ready?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months. we are both 15. he says that i have changed his life because i make him so happy and i am amazing to him. he also makes me happy and i am in love with him. recently he fingered me, and i wasn't ...

Should I be concerned I keep dreaming about sex with my boy friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm a 14 year old gir with a 13 year old boyfriend (he's turning 14 in 3 days). This is a bit awkward to say but I keep having dreams about us having sex. I don't know why! I don't want to have sex with him and I'm waiting to have sex until ...

I've managed to find nobody.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - OK, I'm really, really struggling now, and I don't know who I can turn to. Basically I just want honest answers, which my friends and family in real life don't seem to wish to give. Anyway, I'm almost 29. I will be 30 in a little over a ye...

Never had a relationship in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - Im a 20 years old guy, Im a virgin, I havent had a relationship in my life.. its eatn me up inside, I want all of that to change.. How can deal with this?...

Did I really lose my virginity? I'm not sure

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and just recently had sex for the first time. But it didn't hurt and I didn't bleed. Does this mean that I didn't lose my virginity? ...

Am I being cynical thinking she's too good to be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I need you guys to read over this and tell me what you think because I'm not sure: I met this beautiful girl a couple of months ago. She is literally model gorgeous and then I mean like a victoria's secret angel, not a stick. Anyway, we got t...

I'm 19 and have never had a girlfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - i'm 19 and have never had a girlfriend. I have never been kissed or hugged (besides family). girls always tell me im a nice guy, but not what they're looking for - im always just a friend. i am pretty average, i recently started working out ...

Feeling so guilty. I was drunk and did stuff with a friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Okay so, two nights ago, I got drunk. But not over my head drunk, I still had a bit of consciousness intact. I was at a party and one of my guy friends, who I'm fairly close with, offered to take me home. I let him since it wasn't the first time. Bu...

Can people tell when you're no longer a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - is it true that people can tell when you are not a virgin anymore? if so how? (besides a torn hemen; like a vibe)...

He thinks I lost my virginity, but I feel I didnt! Who is right here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Something Strange Happened to me... i had no deep experience in sex but i knew a lot of information from my friends, one week ago i was with my boyfriend and he tried to penetrate i feel pain so he stop a little bit and repeat after that he enter...

What does it mean if I'm unable to function?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was ...

Virgins getting erections????

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - ok so my friend's worried because her boyfriend says he's not a virgin but she thinks he's lying because he always has a erection like when they hug kiss or anything he always gets a erection and she thinks that if he's not a virgin he would be able ...

My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...

Is he wanting to remain friends or try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - Please take the time to read this as you need the full details to understand. thanks for any advice in advance x :) x It started about 6 months ago when a guy (Ethan who was 17 and a virgin) approached me on holiday, we got to know each-other ...

40 and still a virgin...is sex painful for first timers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm 40 years old and have never had sex. I'm afraid of doing it because I've heard so many women say how painful it is the first time around. I want to enjoy it as much as my fiancee does but the fear is of the pain. I've had to ask my ...

I'm not a virgin and that bothers him, we are starting to get 'physical' but I'm concerned about the arguments.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boy friend for a year we are getting physical now but there is a problem. I am not a virgin and he is, and that bothers him so we always get in arguements for that reason. What should i do if we fight alot but still want to get ...

Do you always bleed your first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of one and a half year wanted to have sex with me some time ago i cried and told him i was a virgin so he should please exercise patient because i want to get married before having sex. He understands that but said it isn't...

Will 1st time sex still hurt when I am 32?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I am so embarrassed to be a 32 year old virgin and am wondering if sex still hurts even when you're this old. I have kept my virginity for so long because I was caught up with studying and also because of cultural beliefs. I am just worried if I ...

I had a surgical procedure, am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Hi. I just want to know if im still a virgin coz i was curious i did put my finger on my vagina (masturbate) a lot of times. does this means im not virgin anymore? im 26 and dont have any experience so im curious that's y do the masturba...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I am seventeen years of age, was molested by my cousin at the age of three. scientifically, am i still a virgin? no penetration was made, just fondling of my vagina. ...

Help! I don't know how to tell him that the pain is kicking the pleasure's butt during sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Lost my virginity five months ago to this difficult man and five months later, it's a little like love. Anyway, it used to be that I'd get extremely wet when he just touched me or looked at me. I still get turned on but my body's reaction isn't ...

Will she still be 'tight' for me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend had sex one time before she met me for literally only 2 minutes and told the man to stop. She knew what she was doing was wrong theres a long back story to this. But I'm wondering will she still be tight when we do it? Tight as a ...

What is it like to make love for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - question i would like to ask all the women on here what it was like to make love for the first time as i don't know what it like...

Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hi eyeryone! Okay so here is my question. My friend told me that she lost her virginity and i asked how did it go and she said it hurt really bad but in the end felt good. so i was wondering. Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt or is that ...

Actual sex grosses me out!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

11 December 2010 (M) - whenever i think about sex (me having sex, others having sex, or watching porn), i get grossed out. i get aroused by like kissing and stuff but not sex, why is this? (im genderqueer, 16, and a virgin)...

Finding a virgin to date at my age is a rarity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

11 December 2010 (M) - At school last week I was in my favorite class wich was history. I thought that it was going to be a regular fun-filled day because usually thats the class that all of my friends are in. In my group of friends there is one boy (besides me} and two ...

Will he become bored with oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I both virgins discovered how much fun oral sex is! I am not ready for sexsex, and he is ok with that, besides i am really getting the hang of blowjobs. (and if u must know he has a wicked tongue) My questions are will he become ...

Products to remove hair efficiently? And should you use lotion to make it smell better down there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 months now, and all we've ever done physically is make out. He's not a virgin, but I am, and recently we've talked about trying oral together. I'm comfortable with our relationship moving forward ...

She lost her virginity to another guy because I was a jerk to her in the beginning, how do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

9 December 2010 (M) - I have a problem. There was this girl that I talked to and I was her firs kiss. First guy that she ever had feelings for. I liked her to but didnt really think much of it. I stopped tralking to her after about 5 weeks and just left her hanging. ...

Scared about having sex with an older guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - So I'm like with this guy who I really like, were talking about having sex. He is much older than me and he has already lost his virginity, i haven't. I feel like there are so many things wrong with me, and it makes me not wanna have sex with him. ...

Ladies, what do you think of a 40 year old virgin? No, not the movie.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 December 2010 (M) - OK, here is a simple and straight-forward question for the ladies. I am going to be honest, and I want the HONEST truth, as you see it. I am a male, 39, going to be 40 in 3 months. I am a virgin. Mostly I am a virgin because I believe sex sho...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - pls help me out, am a 17 years pld virgin and my boyfriend put his hand inside me which really hurt me and later i saw blood coming out. my question is ,am i still a virgin? pls i need answer urgently.thanks...

Tips for male virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - I may have my first sexual experience with this girl that I really like (she's not a virgin). So far, from the things that I've read over the internet: I should take it slow (no rabbit humping), and include a lot of foreplay. Any tips on foreplay ...

I'm not ready for sex and now he's avoiding me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

6 December 2010 (F) - write im 14 and my bf (14) told me to go to his house after school so i did and we went and sat in his bedroom and played black ops for ages and wen we started kissin we got in his bed and we wanted to have sex but i wasnt ready and ran out but he ...

Should I lose my virginity? I hear so many horror stories.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - Hi, i have a questions regarding the loss of my virginity. My Girlfriend of 9 months has asked if we can have sex, she knows i have always wanted to since we first started going out, now the oppertunity is here i dont know if there is any reason why ...

A severe injury broke my hymen and my boyfriend won't accept this, even though I've never had sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - i had never slept with anyone neither had sex but still i lose my virginity due to severe injury doing gymnastic but my boy frend is not ready to accept this can any one plz tell me whot to do because i dont want to lose him i really love him....