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writes:Hi,I'm a 17 year old girl and just recently had sex for the first time. But it didn't hurt and I didn't bleed. Does this mean that I didn't lose my virginity? Reply to this Question
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reader, steph007  +, writes (27 December 2010):
You should not deal with this question. Theoretically a midwife could tell you the truth, but I think you do not want this examination. So, next time let him to push it up to the hilt, then you will be sure it is gone.
Be happy!
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reader, MrsTetzlaff +, writes (26 December 2010):
Um... if you had sex, you lost your virginity.
If you masturbated in years prior, then that is why you were so sensitive.
It is very common for nothing special to happen down there because you lost your virginity.
You're probably in denial that you had sex with a man and you just don't want to face facts that you did and that you are no longer a virgin.
It's okay dear. NOW STAY AWAY FROM MEN UNTIL YOU HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE (It's for your own good).
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reader, benc57 +, writes (26 December 2010):
the thing that hurts when you have sex the first time is your hymen. a small membrain in your ...you know, it doesnt do anything and because its so small and thin it breaks the first time you have sex or you do any strenuous activity. because it breaks it bleeds, because it bleeds it hurts. you arent a virgen you just either didnt have a lot of pain calls in your hymen or it alredy broke from doing a split or falling off a bike or anything that could casue something with the stregth of tissue paper to break. i guess other things could cause bleeding and pain but this is the main one. bacically you erminantly arent a virgen and you perminantly dont have your hymen anymore but its a useless piece of tissue so it doesnt matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): hey, yeah you're not a virgin, i didn't bleed my first time either, and always thought, am i or am i not, but your hymen doesn't have to be broken for you to not be a virgin. Most of the advice mentions contraception and all that, but you did not say in the question it was unprotected, so how would you know whether you should get a pregnancy test or not?, you probably did have sex, there's nothing wrong with not knowing something,or having a question in your mind,anyway love, you're not a virgin, and you might not of bled this time, but you could bleed the next, so dont worry if you do,x
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reader, Proxy  +, writes (25 December 2010):
 I strongly suggest you get yourself tested for pregnancy and STD, you obviously don’t know much about sex or the consequences for having sex without contraception (if you know what that is, of course)
And no you are not a virgin.
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reader, notagain +, writes (25 December 2010):
Yeah, penis in the vagina =not a virgin. I didn't bleed either the first time. Just make sure to use condoms and watch out for guys. All they want is sex. You're in the US so make sure you go to Planned Parenthood and if you continue to have sex, get on birth control.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (25 December 2010):
 Please learn more about sex, before having it again. You are not a virgin. If his penis went into your vagina, you are not a virgin. Please tell us you used birth control and he used a condom?
You can get these free from a health clinic almost anywhere. Call Planned Parenthood, or go to your County Health Department.
If you did not use birthcontrol, you need to have a pregnacy test done. Please be safe...a baby or a STD will change your life forever.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (25 December 2010):
 Jeez, have you even had any sex ed?!
You are NOT a virgin.
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