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writes:okay heres my story..i fancied this boy for a while since back in march 2010, i was absolutely obsessed with him.. (im 14 and hes 15) he messed me around abit and ended up playing me, luckily all i did was kiss him..about 6 months later we started talking again, we got close and ended up going out.I loved him and i am sure as anything he loved me back but i was stupid enough to end it.About a week went past and i started realising how much i missed him, and we ended up getting back together but of course the relationship was never properly the same..in the time that we were apart he got very drunk and ended up losing him virginity to some girl he hardly knew on the beach at night. obviously this had completely messed me up because right before anything happened with him and this girl he had told me he still loved me and i believed him. so we got back together for the second time.About a month and a half had gone by and out of the blue he ended things telling me he was bored of our relationship.but once again not even a week had gone past this time but we got back together for a third time.And now he wants to go further with me, but im not sure myself...i have told him quite a few time that i need to know first that he really does love me and that he says hes not gunna end it with me straight after anything happens.i am the first person out of my group of friends who have come this close to having sex with their boyfriends.i know the advice your gunna give e is to be safe or not do it atall because im only 14.but most of the adults i know lost there virginity before they were 16 to,but i dont know what to do or think..can you help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): "he messed me around a bit and ended up playing me, luckily all i did was kiss him.."I agree with Tisha, he is a TERRIBLE candidate, and I think you know that otherwise you wouldn't be seeking advice. You're too young legally to have sex so wait until you're a few years older and find nicer boys to date in the meantime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): I rely don't think u shud lose ur innocence to that ( srry for the language ) all he wants is ur virginity....and like all the other dirty guys in the world he is just gonna get what he wants then after he does get it he is gonna leave and ur probably nevr gonna see him again :))). I rely hope u make the right decision and do not do anything with him.....P.s : a guy who truly loves u wud respect ur needs and not ask you to do anything that u aren't comfortable with.......good luck
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 He sounds like an extremely bad bet for a first time sexual partner for you. Obviously, you are too young, and the fact that you're even considering this guy tells me your judgement isn't really the best. I think the best thing for you to do is to wait, until you are of age, and until you are with the guy you KNOW is exactly the right man. This teenage player isn't it, really and truly, he's a HORRIBLE choice for you. It would be very sad if you did this with him and he wound up hurting you a FOURTH time. You know he's not reliable, he's mean to boot. He's an AWFUL candidate! Please wait, you won't regret that.
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