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writes:ok so my friend's worried because her boyfriend says he's not a virgin but she thinks he's lying because he always has a erection like when they hug kiss or anything he always gets a erection and she thinks that if he's not a virgin he would be able to control himself more so she thinks he's still a virgin so does it only happen to virgins or not?x
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reader, steph007  +, writes (20 December 2010):
Oh, no. You cannot draw any conclusion of that erection, except that the manhood of this guy seems to work well. And there is no reason to worry. But your friend might be right in her instinct feelings, this boy in fact, may be yet virgin. You know, boys - like girls - used to lie about this item, time to time. But even this is not a unerring law. Just a tip. So, she will be sure of the virginity of this boy, only if she arranged it by herself :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): i agree with the others it's not about age at all....i'm 30 and if i like a girl and we are kissing i get hard...he is just horny as
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (18 December 2010):
 My lord... are you getting any sex education?!
Erections in puberty can be spontaneous, and they happen when a guy is sexually aroused.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 Your friend is wrong. Some guys can control it easier than others I suppose, but I'd take it as a complement to her that he's so attracted to her it happens a lot. Him getting an erection or not has absolutely nothing to do with anything other than him finding something sexy and stimulating.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (18 December 2010):
Your friend is talking nonsense, blokes get erections all the time virgins or not.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (18 December 2010):
 Your friend is totally wrong. Men/Boys ALL get erections, from the strangest things.... kissing and touching will only increase the likelihood of it!
I just have one question.....
Does it really matter if he is a virgin or not?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 It's not really about control it comes down to the fact that he is attracted to her and very horny often. I've been with my gf for almost two years now and there are still things that she does that makes me go hard out of no where, even though we have sex often.
Also he may have only had sex once which would make him not a virgin but it's not like he's been having sex all his life and should be desensitized to it.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (18 December 2010):
 Wow, did you guys fall asleep when they taught sex education in your school???
Guys can get an erection any time, even when they are not hugging a girl or even near one!! You guys seriously need a heads up (excuse the pun) on this sort of stuff...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 December 2010):
Men get erections all the time. Teenagers boys have an average of 11 a day. I'm afraid your friend is misinformed, and probably doesn't understand men as much as would be helpful. Erections happen even when a man isn't turned on. There is no real way to control them.
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reader, Mjfbla  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 Any guy can get an erection if he is physically attracted to the girl.
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