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writes:Hi eyeryone!Okay so here is my question. My friend told me that she lost her virginity and i asked how did it go and she said it hurt really bad but in the end felt good. so i was wondering. Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt or is that just a stereotype people tell. Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 There will always be a level of discomfort the first time, how much depends on the individual person, but it is nothing to worry about, if the male is careful and takes it slow and gentle then it should keep the discomfort to a minimum. But at age 13-15 i dont think you should be thinking about sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Well it depends on the person really. Like say you do sports for example, the hymen in the vagina may already be broken and the girl may not have noticed it. Or if you haven't, it may hurt for a bit, but then it will go away eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): It hurts because your too tight, and at first maybe you werent wet enough or relaxed enough.
Plus, you could still have your "hymen" which is a piece of skin which may not be broken yet.
If you are slow, and don't just jump into sex, and you are wet, and your hymen has nature broken or you've lost it when masturbating, you should be ok.
But you could still get pain, even then.
For a first time, it usually does give a shock, and most the time a pain, but after it your fine.
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reader, klapure4 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 First, you should have sex when your ready and with the right person. Preferably, a boyfriend or partner who loves and cares for you as you do for them. It'll make the experience much more pleasurable and sacred since it will be with someone you love dearly. But, the experience does hurt in the beginning and then it'll become better as you start to explore sexual intimacy. I hope this helps!
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reader, soon567 +, writes (12 December 2010):
It'll hurt a lot. My ex was 19 and she said it hurt like hell.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 A lot of the time it hurts, but not always.
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