My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's falling in love with me, and that she wants exclusivity. I told her that we should take our time, and that we should keep it as it's been for now while we get more comfortable. Something told me that she was still talking to her ex, and I asked her, and she denied still keeping in contact with him, so i went through her phone while she fell asleep, and found all of these texts, and pictures (I know i invaded her privacy, but i had to go with my gut) apparently i was RIGHT!! Is this considered cheating? If not, this is still a sign that she isn't any good right? Also this is a sign that she is a cheater i assume, right? Mind you they've supposedly been broken up for year, and in the last year of their relationship, she had a fling with a guy that she was hanging out with as friends while still with her ex, and when they broke up, she had a 2 month fling with him, got back with her ex, they broke up again a month later and she recycled the fling one more time, then got back with her ex again a month later, all the while still chatting with her ex about getting back together in between break ups, when they were broken up (supposedly) while still trying to work things out with her ex, they were still talking about moving in together but they were on a break, is that also considered cheating? Any advice will be helpful, thanks.....

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