A
female
age
26-29,
*mminnieme
writes:Please take the time to read this as you need the full details to understand. thanks for any advice in advance x :) xIt started about 6 months ago when a guy (Ethan who was 17 and a virgin) approached me on holiday, we got to know each-other over the week and i guess you could say we were acting like a normal couple. we went on long walks on the beach, i stayed in his apartment, we kissed, hugged etc. but on my last day he tried to loose his virginity to me, i didnt feel ready so said no and he was fine about it.the day i got back of holiday me and ethan started going out officially but it didnt last long as he said distance would effect us. he made a massive speech about how i was his everything. he messed me about. He only wanted to be with me to try and loose his virginity. after i found this out i didnt talk to him, we had no contact at all.but now, 6 months on, ethan emailed me telling me about how much he regrets doing what he did, we have become incredibly friendly to me and saying how much he wishes he could turn back time.we have long phone calls again and he always tells me he loves me.i dont know what this means. help ?
View related questions:
on holiday Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, smminnieme +, writes (18 December 2010):
smminnieme is verified as being by the original poster of the question i think you are right, we need to stay friends for abit longer just to make sure we are right for each-other. take things slow and not rush it is the key i think. thank-you for the help :)
A
female
reader, sunandstars +, writes (18 December 2010):
It seems to me Ethan is regretting what he did and has matured in his mind and realised you actually mean a lot to him. He sounds like a decent person so it would be alright for you to give it another go, just be careful and if you find any signs he's going to repeat himself end the relationship. Good luck!
...............................
A
male
reader, CJH +, writes (18 December 2010):
 It seems to mean that Ethan likes you?
If youre worried about a repeat of what happened before, why not insist on just being friends and getting to know each other even than before?
Sex isnt the be all and end all of a relationship, no disrespect, especially at your age.
If youre willing to forget the past and you like the guy, why not suggest the friendship thing and see how it goes?
...............................
A
female
reader, AliceSullivan  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 take it slow! especially if you still have feelings for him thats the biggest thing i can tell you take it as slow as it can go until you trust him enough not to do that again to you.
...............................
|
