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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 months now, and all we've ever done physically is make out. He's not a virgin, but I am, and recently we've talked about trying oral together. I'm comfortable with our relationship moving forward to that, however I have a few questions first. Normally I shave with a razor "down below" , but it leaves horrible razor bumps, which are unsightly to look at and I'd like another alternate to remove the hair. I've tried Nair but it's not efficient at removing all the hair. I know there's waxing, but my pain tolerance is rather low. Is there a product any of you have found to remove hair efficiently without leaving a rash/bumps or causing pain? My other question is from somethings I've heard my friends say. One of them has mentioned putting some sort of lotion up there so it doesn't smell as bad, but I have no idea what she's talking about. Perhaps she's a bit looney, or I'm just inept. Either way, I'd love it if someone could answer with advice, without mocking, and making even some tips on how to make it super fun for him? :) Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): I would stop shaving there. We have hair there for a reason! It protects the whole area from infection and protects the delicate skin. Your natural scent is and should be attractive to your man and a big turn on for you both. Don't use lotions or perfumes as someone said. Use natural soaps for ph balance and vinegar and water douche for that occasional time when things go out of balance.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (9 December 2010):
As a male, I can offer a different perspective on this topic.
First, about the scent I don't suggest taking any special precautions. Just be hygienic, but not to the point of obsession. That area should have a natural scent which many men find attractive, not bad. If it smells like soap or lotion that's not a positive thing.
About hair removal, I suggest sticking with shaving. Over time the razor bump problem should subside and it will be nice and smooth. In the meantime you could try some different shaving creams to see if one of them works better.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (9 December 2010):
 It's not safe to use removal creams on the genital area unless they are specifically designed for removing hair that is on the genital area, so I would stop using the creams.
If you can't wax either because of the pain, then the only method you are really left with is shaving and there are tips on how to shave efficiently enough to where you won't have razor bumps. Check out this website. Just copy and paste this into your url box.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Pubic-Hair-Removal---Tips-When-Shaving&id=88
Don't put lotion in your vaginal canal (in your vagina) that will cause infection and a really bad one. If you want to cleanse your vagina then I would recommend buying a douche. They come already prepackaged at Wal-Mart and there are different scents. There are also specifically designed soaps for cleaning the vagina, that won't disrupt the pH balance so the vagina won't smell worse.
Good luck sweetie.
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