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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I become petrified at the thought of experimenting more, sexually wise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Okay so I have kissed three guys. The first was just a kiss at the end of a date but the last two guys I made out with. I am scared though becasue I don't know how to do anything else. Is something wrong with me because I am scared to get ...

We joked about losing my virginity to him as a birthday present. I suddenly like him so what do you advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I'm really confused with myself at the moment because of something that happened last night. I'll give a few details before I go on about last night tho. I've just left school and there's a guy who is my mate who used to flirt loads at school....

Is kissing before marriage okay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I am 22 years old and three months ago I met a guy. I am still a virgin and in fact he was the first guy I kissed. I really liked him, but he behaved more like a friend and still we were dating. Some days ago we were kissing and when I told him that ...

Anything "different" that we can do in order to postpone actual sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - SO my boyfriend of about a year and a half keeps saying he wants us to do something "new". But I'm not ready to have sex yet. We've done: handjob, blowjob, finger and "eat out".. is there anything 'different' that we can do?...

No bleeding after using the dildo, am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - ok i dont know if i am still a virgin....my friend told me to use a dildo to ease my first time with my b/f. I did use the dildo but it really hurt and there was no bleeding. i had read that you could lose my virginity without bleeding but i am not ...

I'm a virgin - I'm left wondering whether she is or not. My fiance`s past relationship is bothering me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - This question stems from my fiances past relationship and my inexperience with relationships, but before I think crazy things I need your experienced advice. This is a long and boring read so bear with me if you really want to help me. ABOUT ME ...

Does my mother have a right to be mad at me for losing my virginity? I'm 20!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - This will be long so i apologise in advance. I will start at the beginning. I have a boyfriend since february and am crazy about him. I am 20 and after a few weeks we slept together. It was my first time but it wasnt his. I was not pressuri...

I'm in a very critical situation! Please help me to solve this problem.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - i am a 22 years old girl and i need your help and suggestion regarding the relationship between my real brother (27 years) and me. Actually my brother has very good personality (i also) and many girls like him. my brother has sexual rela...

I'm a virgin and I want to have sex with my boyfriend. How can I relax?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I am 24 years old and still a virgin. I have recently decided that i am ready to have sex with my long time boyfriend. We have tried once and I freaked out. I couldn't relax and kept moving my legs and hips! I am just so scared that it is going ...

What counts when it comes to losing your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I am a bit unsure about other peoples opinion and the cold hard fact about virginity. Right then, i want to start by saying that i believe myself not to be a virgin but i would just like to clear up a few things. My idea of losing your virgini...

Would having oral sex mean I would be losing my vriginty?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i want to have oral sex.but i don't want to lose my virginity. so my question is can i lose my virginity if i have oral sex?...

How can I be sure I lost my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - well i had sex with my boyfriend. who is 19 and i am 15. yes i love him and i know he loves me and i dont regret doing it with him. but i didnt feel much pain so how am i sure i lost my virginity without telling my doctor?...

Am I wrong for wanting to know how old she was when she lost her virginity?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

26 June 2008 (M) - I am having trouble coping with the fact that my girlfriend won't tell me how old she was when she first had sex. I know who it was with, just not how old she was. I also want to know how many different guys she's been with and who they are. To a ...

Will he think it's weird that he's my first proper boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I've just started seeing someone, I like him a lot but I am embarressed because I am almost 28 and have never been in a serious relationship - he wants to talk about past relationships etc but I keep avoiding the questions, do you think he will mind ...

My insecurities are interfering with sexual things with my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Okay, so this is a pretty embarrasin' question, but i really need advice. The thing is, i'm 15 nearly 16, but i'm really not comfortable with my body in any shape or form. When i say things to people, i'm really genuine and don't do it for attent...

I'm distressed about losing my viginity, what comes next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - i have been a virgin al my life nt until i met this guy who has been asking me out for 2 years now and i got to fall in luv with him so i accepted just recently and he like sex and romance a lot. and i had to succumb and now i have been disvirgi...

Should I let what people think of me including what my family thinks of me get in the way of having sex?? I'm 14

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Hello im 14 and me and my bf want to have sex but its a long distance relationship so we wanna have fone sex till we can actually meet up and have sex. I'm worried that my parents will be disappointed in me for loosing my virginity at 14 ive ...

Should I lose my virginity before going to Uni?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and will be going to university in September. I'm still a virgin, although nearly lost my virginity with a boyfriend last year. He was also a virgin and was too nervous, so it was impossible. I'm really worried about the rumours about ...

My boyfriend is begging me to have sex with him, What should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I am 13 years old, my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were 4 but we only started dating last year. My b/f and i are really close, but he keeps begging me to have sex with him. I trust him alot, but i'm not sure what to do. Please h...

We broke up but he is now asking if I will lose my virginity with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I am only 17 years old, I've dated a guy for only a month then we broke up. We kept talking for a while and he's always been honest to me, even when we broke up. Know were going to see each other and he ask me if i want to lose my virginity with ...

I just found out that my fiance is a compulsive gambler, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I just found out that my fiance is a compulsive gambler! We have lived together for over a year. It was not until we linked our bank accounts that I found out where all the money was going -- online poker! He knows how much he has hurt me and ...

I'm almost 21 yrs old and have not had sex yet, I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - I'm almost 21 years old and have not had sex yet. my longest relationship was about 3 months back in high school when i was 16. i really dont know what the hell i'm doing. i'm not gay lets get that out of the way. I just feel sometimes too nerv...

I'm I going to be pressured to have sex from all these boys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - i am nearly 14 and i am underpresser about having sex! there are soo many sexy lads that i know, and most of them have asked me out, i have only went out with 1 of them, and there is 9 more lads that have asked me out. the one i went out with said ...

Do guys really prefer virgins?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - hi everyone. ok i went on holiday a few weeks ago and went on a date with this boy who was a year older than me. within 1 hour it was clear all he wanted was sex.(i didnt give him it!) i told him i was a virgin but he was still eager saying stuff ...

Help I'm confused and worrying about this guy....all advice really appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - hi im a girl who lives in a conservative country... okay, there's this foreigner ive been going out with and we are so hot when we're together.he says he respects my being a virgin and he just wants to be with me even without penetration.but i just ...

Do I like him because he reminds me of someone famous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - Its this guy i know who looks like chris brown and when i hear his songs i think about the guy that ive known 11months now and i wanna be with him but i cant because he likes intercourse and im a virgin.my question is am i falling 4 him becuz of ...

Did the older man that took my virginity just want me for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I am from a religious culture. Half a year ago, I lost my virginity to a man much older than me. I knew it was wrong but I couldn't resist the temptation. I loved him and I am still in love with him. I told him several times I was not ready and ...

Changes after the first sexual contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

22 June 2008 (M) - After you have sex for the first time, do you keep wanting it more afterwords? I don't want it to affect my decisions, and I don't want to hurt anyone by doing it with them too early. So, how does doing it once change you? Sorry if I wasn't clear ...

Did she lose her virginity or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - okay i have this best friend and she dosen't know if she really lost her virginity or not because she said they were in the bathroom she was sitting on the bathroom counter top and he asked her if she wan't to feel what it would be like when she ...

My GF will not have sex until she is married. I don't want to cheat on her but I have my urges...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

20 June 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is a virgin and will not have sex until she is married. I respect her and her wishes. But I want her so bad it's killing me! I don't want to cheat on her but I have urges what should I do?...

I want to loose my virginity! Any advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

20 June 2008 (?) - k i really want to loose my viginity and i kiss my arm and pretend a boy is actually dare but how do i get a boy that is right they all call me ugly but i dont think i am and im hated off all the girls giv me sum advise plzz im 14 x...

My friend found out her boyfriend has an STD, and she was ready for sex with him. What should she do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - My friend has this major problem. She has not being dating for five years until last summer, with this guys she met at the lake. They are very happy together. It is seriously true love. But she found out that he has an STD. She has never had sex ...

Two periods in a month, the second after losing my virginity. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - i had my periods on 1may08 after 7 days i lost my verginity.then on 12may again i had periods.its been over a week that i am getting no periods??is this a normal issue?...

I'm a virgin and worried my pubic hair will put her off. What can I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

17 June 2008 (M) - hi, I'm just 17 I'm a virgin and i feel like i have too much pubic hair. I'm scared that when the moment is right she will see me and be grossed out. my question is, is this a problem? and is there anything i can do about it?...

I'm a virgin and only want sex but can't find a girl that will accept that

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

17 June 2008 (M) - I am a virgin and it seems to me that im only attracted to women becayse of the sex but i cant find a girl to be with nthat accepts me the way that i am. ...

I'm not ready for sex but should I have let him do it between my boobs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) - I'm still a virgin but my bf really wants to have sex with me. I'm not ready but I do love him so last night I let him talk me into having sex between my boobs (boy is that messy). Will a guy be happy with something like that or is he just going to ...

Could someone please clear up the 'Hymen Situation'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

16 June 2008 (?) - I am really confused about the 'hymen' situation, i have been horse-riding all my life - so has my hymen broke!? or will you just never know.... is sex easier when your hymen is broke?? :S...

First time worries: I heard it may be painful... what to expect?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

16 June 2008 (F) - Okay, i'm going to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but i'm a bit nervous. I get the idea on here that it hurts, but others i have spoken to say it doesn't? How long could this go on for? ...

My mum caught me out trying to lose my virginity!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

15 June 2008 (F) - i've known my new bf for months and we good freinds and have been going out for 2 weeks and i decided to lose my virginity with him am almost 17 and been waitin for right person so i said i was stayin at a mates to my mum well she foned later and ...

Did I loose my virginity or am I just on my period???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

15 June 2008 (F) - ok this is how it went down...last night my boyfriend tried to finger me but it hurted so i told him to stop, so we tried again but it still hurted...so we stopped trying...he told me my hole was too tight and it was hard to go in...i went to the ...

I will be staying a week with my boyfriend and want to make love for the first time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

14 June 2008 (F) - On the 20th I'm due to go down south to see my boyfriend for the week. His parents will be away for the week too. So we'll be home alone. Now my dad thinks that we'll be doing something and keeps asking if he should get me some protection, just...

What are these "bumps" on her vagina?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

13 June 2008 (F) - my question is pretty major. My Girl Friend doesnt want to have sex because she has bumps on her vagina, ive seen it myself. they are almost like pimples, but only occur on the surface and are nowhere by the "inside" of her vagina...do you guys have ...

He wants to take my virginty during our outing with his parents!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

13 June 2008 (F) - ok, so me and my boyfriend are going to a monster truck show and he wants to have sex during our outing (6:00 PM- about 1:00 AM) He says that he loves me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I just feel like losing my virginity ...

Does it hurt to have sex the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

12 June 2008 (F) - I know you must get many of these questions, however, did it hurt the first time you had sex? How long will this go on for?...

My boyfriend and I cant seem to have sex because of the pain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

12 June 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend tried to have sex so many times but it hurts a lot and i can't stand the pain, my hymen is too elastic. i'm desperate and i think i'll go to see a doctor. or maybe it's better that i lose my virginity by fingering? please help ...

Even though I know all he wants is sex, I still feel there's a reason to talk to him and try and become closer to him!! Any advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - Early last year I met an eighteen year-old boy. It was amazing. He was gorgeous, absolutely adorable and just the nicest person I had ever known. It was amazing. We really hit it off from the start, and I just loved every minute of it. We were never ...

Does semen leak out straight after intercourse-or worse still the next day!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - I'm ready to start having full sex with my boyfriend.We're both very sensible and have been talking about contraception before we start. It's a toss up between the pill or a condom. I fancy the pill because condoms might reduce sensation but does ...

I like this guy who keeps asking me for sex and I don't trust him. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) - thre is this guy that i met and he is 17 and i'm 15.he is really cute and i like him. we went out for 2 days and then i broke up with him cause he kept ansking me to hve sex with him and i do not feel like doing that right now and when i tell him ...

It started out as a silly dare, but then I got hooked should I seek counselling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

10 June 2008 (M) - hi, i think theres a problem. well, see it started out as a dare, but then i got hooked. ive never really had a girlfriend, well, ive had one, but it was only for three months so it doesnt really count. and my birthday is coming up soon, and i think ...

I lost my virginity just recently and my inner thighs hurt very much. Any way to stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

9 June 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend, and although (after the initial pain went) it felt good, my inner thighs hurt like hell. Sorry if this sounds crude, but every time I have a guy between my legs it kills! Will this go after we've ...