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writes:On the 20th I'm due to go down south to see my boyfriend for the week. His parents will be away for the week too. So we'll be home alone. Now my dad thinks that we'll be doing something and keeps asking if he should get me some protection, just in case and I keep insisting that nothing like that'll happen. But the boyfriend went and bought some earlier just in case, so we'll be safe.My boyfriend and I still have our innocence and would like to lose it to each other :] He stayed round my place a few weeks back and stuff happened then :O ,So we think that like during the week we might go all the way. We'd both like it to be special, but I'm not sure how to make it special. Like, we're going to be watching a movie one night and then see where it leads from there. Advice please?Also, I know it'll hurt for the first few times and he knows this too. But if I bleed too, how much do girls usually bleed on their first time? :| Thanks :] Reply to this Question
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 Well, to make it romantic, maybe a candlelit dinner, or a walk on the beach beforehand?
Some girls bleed a lot, others dont. It differs on every person.
Your very responsible using protection, but remember theres still a very small chance of it breaking..etc.....
Your virginity is very special, so make sure your ready. So many girls end up regretting it, so make sure to think about it first!
If you's are in love, and you are def ready, then go for it!
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): I would think you should wait a bit longer. I did a virgin once and she bleed so much it soaked the sheet into the bed. Everbody what we had done.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (14 June 2008):
The only thing that I can say is dont plan it. If you plan it it will cause pressure and it wont be good. The first time that my fiance and I did anything we were messing around and I whispered in his ear that I was ready and that I wanted him. It was magical. We were just like you we were both virgins and had been fooling around a little before. I did say it was magical, but that doesn't mean perfect in fact it was quite flawed. My fiance got so scared he couldn't keep it up which is VERY normal. Just remember it will get better and you are both learning which is what makes it perfect. Just dont excpect it to be something from a movie or a romance novel or you will be dissappointed. No matter how it happens it will mean everything to both of you for the rest of your lives. Also remember that it will get much better with time.
As far as blood it will be enough that he will see a little on himself after, but not like a horror movie.
One other side note if you have ever used a tampon then your hymen is broken and there wont be any blood and the pain will be almost nothing.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (14 June 2008):
 well since your going over to his house i would hope that he has made some planes to make it romantic. if you dont think he has anything planned you still have time to make a suggestion to him befor you go there. now i wish you two the best but theres some things i should say. how long have you two been together because i generally dont approve of couples haveing sex if they have been going out less then 6 months. also i think your a little younge to be haveing sex but if youv been dateing for over 6 months i could let that slide. well best of luck.
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