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writes:ok i dont know if i am still a virgin....my friend told me to use a dildo to ease my first time with my b/f. I did use the dildo but it really hurt and there was no bleeding. i had read that you could lose my virginity without bleeding but i am not sure. am i still a virgin?
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 If you never had intercourse with your bf then your a virgin
No matter of the state of your hymen or if you bleed or not
PS: Hymens can be broken in ways other than sexual ways like horseback riding
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): You can loose your virginity with out bleeding. I did.
A lot of people mistake the breaking of the Hymen to be a loose of virginity, but the hymen can break very easily during sport. A virgin is someone how has not yet has full vaginal penetration by someone else... In other words, a virgin is someone who has not has sex. You have not, so there for you are still a virgin.
*warning* This may be a bit graphic for some people.
Bleeding is caused by your vagina being torn open... Literally ripped apart. This happens mainly when your vagina cannot stretch enough to allow the passage of the object pushing it's way into it. It looks like yours was able to stretch enough. The stretching is what would have caused the pain.
So, whether it caused bleeding or not, you will remain a virgin until you have sex with your boyfriend.
Seeing as you have stretched your vagina a little it probably won't hurt too badly. But just in case it does get your boyfriend to kiss you all the way through your first time... Or nibble on your ear or your neck. This will hopefully distract you from the pain you do feel.
Good Luck hunny. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): You haven't lost your virginity until you've actually had sex. Not everyone bleeds anyway, it depends on whether your hymen has been torn or just stretched.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): hi, well i gess you r not just because it wasnt a real one doesnt mean that it wasnt alike once ur vigina is open and is inserted by a model like dick there is realy nogoing back realy sorry, but once your keep using it, it will get more pleserable..........goodluck:)xoxoxox
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (28 June 2008):
Do you still have your hymen? no. Are you still a virgin? Yes. I believe that you dont lose your virginity until you have consenting sexual intercourse with someone. I dont believe you can lose your virginity to an object or to someone who raped you. You will lose your virginity when you and your boyfriend have sex.
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