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writes:SO my boyfriend of about a year and a half keeps saying he wants us to do something "new". But I'm not ready to have sex yet. We've done: handjob, blowjob, finger and "eat out"..is there anything 'different' that we can do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Well you could try going back to the begining. Start kissing and cuddling again and slowing things right down. Frustration can be fun and can make what your doing already even more exciting and slightly forbidden. Did you know there are probably 100 kisses, have you tried everyone..... How about fondles and carresses with clothes on......Take things slower and take time to explore the fun areas you already have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Heat up the foreplay: get some sex toys; get some edible condoms; and explore new ways of doing,what you have been doing; have fun and enjoy getting to know each other's entire body, not just the genitals; find all the erogenous spots!
Good luck; have fun and ENJOY!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): Well there is only so much you can do but you could make it more exciting when giving him a blowjob or handjob why not tie him up get some tatsy lubes you could get some toys for you and him.Dressing up is good too you dont need to go the full way but satisfy each other the way you both like it with a bit of spice hope this has answered your question good luck X
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): well you could get some sex toys etc get each other turned on tease each other. just try different ways hope you two have a good time lol :P x
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reader, shelleyanne  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 You could get naked and rub your bodies against eachother without actual penetration. Just be careful that he doesn't cum near your opening, because there is still the slim chance you could get pregnant that way. Try new tricks to make the things you're already doing more interesting. He could finger you while at the same time giving you oral. Depending on how much alone-time the two of you get, you could buy sexy lingerie to keep things interesting. He'll think it's hot. You could put a new twist on oral and try 69. Talk it out with him. Tell him you're not ready for sex, but ask him what else would be fun for him.Hope that helps. Good luck!
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