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writes:I am a virgin and it seems to me that im only attracted to women becayse of the sex but i cant find a girl to be with nthat accepts me the way that i am. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 June 2008):
Well going up to them ans saying "please can I use you to lose my virginity" isn't exactly the smoothest chat up line.
If you want no strings sex then hit the clubs, there are plenty of girls who will be happy with a one night stand, they just don't want to know that:
a) they are taking your innocence away
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b) you just want a vagina, not them
Either that or go and see a prostitute, find a nice local one who works for herself, not a kidnapped Polish girl, or a drug addict.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): Well obviously, you don't tell her you only want to know her for sex - is that really what you say?
Try some new chat-up lines that don't involve telling them your intentions!
Actually, there are many girls around who just want sex too but they don't talk about it. Nothing wrong at all with that so long as you don't go making any long-term promises or declarations of love etc.
So, just be nice to them, see where it leads, if it happens, enjoy the moment(s) and if you feel the need to move on, do! Just watch what you say and remember - no-one owes anyone anything.
Good luck.
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reader, Sophia_Sweetheart +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Ah sweetheart. It seems to me like you're just horny right now, miraculously are still a virgin (despite the apparent sexual desire!!) and now ready to finally let go and have sex. Am I right? Well to be honest with you honey, a lot of women wouldn't really appreciate this.
Of course, I don't want to be stereotypical or anything like that, but not a lot of woman just want sex! They're looking for something deeper. Love, trust, real feelings. I'm not normally one to suggest such a thing, but have you tried looking into strip clubs for a way to release all your sexual tension? Also, this way you end up with no nasty pregnancies and you can keep your virginity for your wife!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): thats cuz girls dont want to be used as a piece of ass. you cant just expect a girl to just hand you sex. she has to love you and most important, you have to love her back. sorry to say it but if sex is all your looking for then your not going to get it, unless some slutty whore is going to hand it to you.
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reader, Manximus  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 To be honest, I don't think there will be many women that will accept it.
Women like to be treated with respect, not as sex objects.
If it is just the sex you are interested in, with no strings, then I would suggest that you join a swingers club or visit a prostitute.
Just use protection, whatever you do.
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