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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

He has lied to me before, so now he says he wants privacy and I dont trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for a year and some months. We have lived together for a year. He has lied to me a couple times before about dumb things, like giving his number out to girls and denying ever talking to them. In my past ...

My boyfriend mentioned the fantasy of a threesome and I cant get over it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend said, that like any guy, a part of him wants to have a threesome, But he doesnt really want to do anything to the other girl, just me. Well Of course I made a really wierd face because I didnt know that he had thought of having a ...

My husband took another woman out on our boat while I was away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My husband took a female friend/coworker out on our boat while I was away at a sporting event last weekend. He picked her up in her town (by water), met her at the dock of a hotel at the waters edge, took her for a ride approx 30 km north up the ...

My boyfriend doesnt just glance at other women, he GAWKS

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a question about men who gawk for long periods of time at other women. I understand that it is human nature for a man to glance. Is it a problem when it gets to the point to where my BF is spending the whole night at the pub gawk...

He ignored my calls and I said we should just be friends, but I dont know if I did the right thing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for 4 months and he sais he loves. We have been friends for 4 years before that. He alwayed text me every day and phoned me most and told me to not stop texting him but last weekend i heard nothing from him and he ignored my ...

We've been dating 7 years, but I still have trouble completely trusting him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Hi. Ive been with my guy for nearly 7 years now, and i read on here a few days back (a response to someone elses problem) that if were still dating, dump him, as he doesnt want comitment. Me and my guy are still dating, we would get married but i th...

Is my fiance a liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Is my fiance a liar? He went away for four days last week to look at a trailer in a different state that he was about to buy for his work. I asked why he had to go so long and he said it was because he wasn't sure what day he would see the trailer. ...

I am not sure how to tell if a girl really has been leaching on to his neck or if his reasons are genuine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - It may be nothing but a few days ago I saw three different marks on my boyfriend's neck and collar bone and he says that two of them are bruises from where a shelf fell on him and the other one is a pinch mark when he was drunk (rather silly thing ...

Has my boyfriend been cheating on me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I'm 17 and am in my first relationship that has become sexual. My boyfriend (18)and I have been together since February of this year but I was told by a not-so-close guy friend (who doesn't like my boyfriend but has no known interest in me) that a ...

How can I change my mood and stop thinking these crazy things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I’ve been in a relationship for almost 4 years and I love my boyfriend to death. My main problem is mostly with myself. A lot of the time I’m creating scenarios in my head that I know aren’t true (and I have no reason to suspect that they are) about ...

Am I a mug for letting it get this far? Does the fact I've been off sex justify him contacting other girls in this way even if he has no intention of doing anything with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Would really appreciate an objective opinion or two on this one. I really don't know what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, and over the last 6-12 months things have been getting a bit mundane. We just talk about bills...

How can we repair the broken trust before it tears us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hello! I was online the other day when a random woman contacted me telling me my boyfriend was chatting with her and planning on a rendezvous with her next weekend. She then went on to forwarding their entire conversation to me. It was very ...

I find it hard to trust him because I have had 2 failed marriages both because they cheated on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I have had two failed marriages both of which they cheated on me. My relationship with my boyfriend is falling because I find it difficult to trust him, it is not because he has done anthing wrong, he wants to go to night clubs with friends which I ...

Why did he get married if he wanted to chat to other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I discovered pornographic stories, written by my husband for other men and women, on his pc. He had asked for photographs of their wives (or them if they were female). This was the third time I had cause to wonder what he was doing on the pc. The ...

I think my girlfriend may have cheated on me. Here are the signs...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Okay, I'm worried about a cheating significant other, too. I have trust issues in general, but the thing is my current girl (fiance, actually) who I have been with for two years now almost has this close male friend. They've been friends since hi...

Is it wrong of me to want a divorce after discovering other women's pictures?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - While my husband was out of the house I discovered that during the past 2 years he has been looking at and saving pictures of other women. These pictures are from a fetish site and some are pornographic. When I confronted him, he lied to me and then ...

How do I deal with my wayward brother, who only speaks to me when he wants something.? Advice appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Ooops i posted a question on 'am i being petty about my brother' havent had any replies yet but things have progressed. I have fallen out with my mother now. And my older sister has fallen out with our mum too. My brother is 25 and isnt working at ...

He took my virginity and went back to his ex gf! Now he's back in contact..what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I really need peoples opinions on this, so please help if you can.....i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my ...

Am I wrong in stopping my kids seeing their dad who has a drink and drugs problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I seperated from my partner and father of my three children 14 months ago life has been pretty hard as when we first seperated i found out that i was pregnant with my third child he gave me no support during this time. A week after i gave birth he ...

Girlfriend going overseas, can I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a Girlfriend going overseas for 1 year she is 20 im 27 i told her i may visit her for a few weeks, she told me she wants to go overseas to be independant and work and visit friends. I have been going out with her for 3 mo...

Do you think that I can trust my wife with this man in our life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - In May 2006 my wife of eight years began having an affair with a coworker. I confronted her a few weeks later and she said that their secret relationship was over. Throughout the rest of the year I correctly suspected that their affair was ...

I can't help but flirt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Im a natural flirt...Im 20 (21 Pretty Soon) Anywasy everyone i meet (I mean everyone) I flirt with my girlfriend hates it and i keep telling her im not...I cant stop i mean i only notice it because people tell me my girlfriend is really emotional ...

What are some good tips for getting over a malicious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - What are some good tips for getting over a malicious relationship? Last year I met a guy who rocked my world, in the sense that we had so much in common, had so much fun together, he was a sweetheart and seemed to share similar opinions and mor...

Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...

how do i deal with this fear that she is trying to break me and my bf up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - The other night I went out with my bf and his work friends. One of his work friends brought his gf who has a bad drinking problem (she got caught drink driving a number of times and has now lost her lisence, not to mention she drinks excessivly). ...

How can I get him to trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is leaving me because he cant trust me anymore. he saw a comment i left for an ex on myspace although we are just friends and have been friends for years. we dated about 6 years ago. my current boyfriend didnt want me to keep in touch ...

Dont want to get messed around again so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Hi :) errm well i'm really confused at the moment lol i've liked this certian lad for a while now, he said he liked me, then went out with another girl :S he's not with this girl anymore and all my friends have noticed he's getting close to me ...

has he cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, After I broke up with my ex he had another gf the very next day! I was really mad, because people were saying he was cheating on me, he only asked me out b/c he felt sorry for me, and that he really liked her. So I got really mad, and...

I love my girlfriend, but sometimes I have very serious doubts about us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Im 18 years old (female), and have been with my girlfriend on and off for 15 months. She cheated on me over xmas/january time, and after alot of agro i took her back. Her mum is a reformed jehovah's witness and contacting her is so hard as her m...

I think I'm acting normal, but he thinks I'm cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Am I jealous or is my fiance jealous? My fiance always says that I get jealous. If getting a little angry and annoyed if he checks out and acts differently around attractive blondes is jealous then maybe I am. But isn't he jealous when I go out to a ...

Back together now but everytime we argue he throws 'past issues' in my face. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a very up and down relationship. He's about 6 years younger than me, and when we first got together, everything was perfect. He was thoughtful, caring, did everything and anything to make me happy. We started having ...

My boyfriend's upset that I slept with someone while we were on a break! How can we both deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating about four years ago. Over a year ago, we decided to end things, or take a break, because of pressure and disapproval from family and friends. We've since worked through those obstacles and are now closer than ever. ...

How can I convince him I'm not going to cheat on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

27 July 2007 (?) - Trust issues with my BF: Ok, so we've been together for 11 months. I'm 18, he's 22. He's my first BF, and I'm the first girl he has lasted so long with in a relationship. One of his exes cheated on him with one of his friends. His father abandone...

I saw a suspicious message on my wife's phone but she swears there's nothing in it; how can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - hi i'm having trouble with my wife, she doesnt live in the states she lives with my son currently 2thousand miles away, i saw a message on her cell phone from a guy friend of hers saying love you horney. and since then i have trouble trusting her, ...

The night we announced our engagement he went and saw a hooker!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hi, my partner and i have been together for 3 years we recently got engaged and today i found out that he went to a hooker the same night we told our friends and family the news.whats even worse is that the same day he got the hooker was the day we ...

I keep hearing the same promises from my husband, but they never follow through!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my husband for 10 years; we've always had our problems like every other couple. But the last two years have been hell. Both for myself and my children. Well i've told my husband that I'm through with this relationship and am ...

Why is my ex-boyfriend always on the phone?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a week and a half ago. He still comes over to my house and we still mess around sexually. but everytime i call him he is on the phone. he always says he is talkin to one of his guy friends. when he gets off the ...

What can I do to get him back after breaking the trust more than once?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend just recently found out that I was still communicating with an ex I dated years ago. There is nothing between us but I promised not to keep contact with him more than once and this was the final straw. My boyfriend says he can't trust ...

I walked out of his home two weeks ago after he said he didn't want a dead relationship and he hasn't made any contact... do I ring him???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - I believe my relationship of 8 years is over. The past 2 years haven't been too good for either of us due to my belief that he was seeing someone else. I'm sure he had a fling but he made a lot of effort to keep us together. Alas my trust was not as ...

I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend and all I do is nag at him all the time. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend and all I do is nag at him all the time. What should I do?...

I've been hurt so many times, I'm having trouble trusting my new beau

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I'm scared! i've been single for 4.5 years now, I've had flings and dates etc nothing more than a few weeks. My last boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me and got the other girl pregnant. I took it very badly at the time the break up was slow and ...

Why does he keep the pictures of his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - So I ran across some pictures of my current fiancee's ex-girlfriend. She cheated on him, broke his heart -- you know the story. The breakup was big. These pictures were, how do I say, 'clothing optional'. We've been together for quite some time and ...

Should i ask her about her past sexual experiences?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - I started dating this girl about 5 weeks ago. We just met this summer and we started dating about a month after we met. The relationship has been great so far and she's the first girl I have ever loved and she says I am the first guy she has love...

I am having trouble trusting my boyfriend not to cheat

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has history of being a serious player. He has cheated on every one of his previous girlfriends but he says everything is different with me, its been a while and he's been faithful but I still can't completely trust him. I've told him of ...

I cheated once years ago, but I am afraid my ex mother in law will tell him now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - i have been with my partner for 5 years i have a 4 year old daughter with him. i love him to bits but 2 years ago i cheated on him with my ex husband. my ex mother in law knows this. last week we fell out. i am scared that she will tell my partner ...

I added him to my hotmail, but I lied to him and said I was from a foreign country and had put him on by accident

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Hi guys I posted this question about 2 weeks ago. The situation has developed further so I'm asking for assistance again. here is the original question: ------------------------------------- Ok th...

My jealousy and pettyness ruined one wonderful relationship, and now is threatening another! How do I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - Hi there,, Ive read many of the posts and can relate to many of the tales of horrible all consuming jealousy, and Im amazed and ashamed that I actually feel a little bit better reading these posts and in some way feel close to you all, just today I ...

My best friend/lover and I have a pseudo relationship. I want to make it real, but he doesnt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Hi New Friends! Im desperate for advice...Its a sticky situation with a lot of history, and if you need more info from me before responding, feel free to ask. I have been best friends/lovers with a man on and off for about 17 years. He is the...

I forgave her for cheating, I love her so much, but I fear the relationship is dying, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - i really feel that my relationship is dying. weve been dating for one year and 8 months so far..i love her very much, and she is/was the love of my life so far. im only 20, but unlike most people my age, im only interested in long term relationshi...

She didnt tell me about being in contact with her ex's should I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - I'm 20, with a girlfriend (lets call her K). We've been dating for 7 months and a month ago began a long distance relationship. I love her to death and she acts the same way towards me. If anything I think she cares more. Never would I assume she ...