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writes:I really need peoples opinions on this, so please help if you can.....i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my virginity to him...and a week after he told me he was really sorry but he was getting back together with his ex. I was so upset about this, and never spoke to or saw him again....so i dont think i was ever really over him even though i tried to convince myself i was.I got an email from him completly out of the blue being really lovely ect and saying he owe's me an apology and that he wants to meet up with me, i told him last yesterday i would ring him but when it came to it i couldnt bring myself to dial his number....all my old feelings are coming but and i dont know what to do...please help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): The fact that you can't keep him as yours makes him so much more attractive than he would be if he was head-over-heels in love with you. "Grass is greener" principle. The quickest and most effective way to get a girl locked onto you is to inconsistently give her affection and brush-offs.And whatever you do, please do yourself a favor and realize one very simple, pure, true fact: Sex is not helping bond him to you the same way it's bonding you to him.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): i don't think it's a good idea to get back together with that guy.you will be his rebound girl, TWICE.what if he goes back to his after after a while? i bet you would feel so bad towards yourself. apparently, he is not completely over his ex.whatch out for the ex-factor. plus you are still to young with a lot of options ahead of you. it would be better if you guys just be friends.
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reader, anon28 +, writes (3 August 2007):
 Don't call him. He's only looking for one thing. If his heart was yours he wouldn't have gone back to the ex in the first place. He knows your young and vulnerable, and is taking advantage. He'll do it again. Please don't ignore this. If it's not the ex, it'll be someone else. He wants to have his cake and eat it. If you do call him, don't have sex and see how long he sticks around. He obviously thinks you're easy meat. Take care and have respect for yourself, otherwise no-one else will. You'll be thankful when he's a distant memory and you have a real partner, who only has eyes for you. Do you really want someone elses scraps
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reader, myp  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 it doesnt hurt to say hi...
maybe he got his priorities straight, and maybes hes just an asshole lookin to get some, but youll never know unless u call him.
so call him up, try to look at the situation objectively, and asses ur feelings and his "feelings", if u feel like its right then go from there, and if it doesnt feel right then forget about him.
-Myesha
message me if u want to talk
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